Would u keep ur baby!!!!?

Question

If u were pregnant to a guy u had known for years (10years), and you had left ur husband for him (6months ago) and then found out u were pregnant to him, and he said he didn't want it, 1. Would u keep ur baby even without him? or 2. Would u have an Abortion?

Answer 1

I would keep my baby. **** that guy.!!

Answer 2

This is a tough question but do what your heart tells you is right, i won't be like everyonelse and tell you what i would do or what i think you should do everyone is different and there situations are  different, just dont let anyone decide for you, it's your body and your life do with it what you please, I wish you the best of luck:)

Answer 3

it doesnt matter the situation. if you want the baby, keep it. im pro choice by the way so if you decide on an abortion, think about it and make sure you are certain

Answer 4

Just because he is irresponsible doesn't mean you have to be also. That baby is a life growing inside of you, it is such a gift. I am sorry that your situation turned out this way but don't make it worse by doing something you could regret for the rest of your life. No guy is worth the life of a baby.

Answer 5

Keep the baby.  You will regret it if you dont.  Forget about the guy. Give that baby a good life.

Answer 6

I would keep my baby and file child support on him.

Answer 7

I would keep my baby no matter what! I would never consider abortion.

Answer 8

ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR BLOODY MIND?!  

Have you not read anything on the TTC board?!  There are women who are dying to be pregnant and here you are considering terminating your pregnancy.  Man, it's people like you that make people like me so madd!

Answer 9

I would NEVER kill my baby just because I didn't like the guy I had it with. Life is too precious to throw away like that.

Answer 10

=) I would say keep it. And to all the people being total sh*ts to you; you guys are so beyond ridiculous. Knock it off and grow up!! Even if you are forty you don't need to attack this woman ASKING for ADVICE.

Answer 11

i would  keep the baby. even tho he doesnt want a kid that doesnt mean be irresponsible and have an abortion

Answer 12

Keep The Baby.It was not the babies fault that he decided he would not be a man and step up and take care of his responsibility.You also do not need 2 parents to take care of and raise a a child single moms and dads Do it everyday just fine.

Answer 13

If I were your ex husband I'd be laughing at you for leaving for him only to find that you're pregnant and the other guy turned out to be nothing other then a jerk...

This is the bed you made, now you have to lay in it... I would not have an abortion... you're old enough to know better then to have an oops.

Answer 14

Abortion is NEVER an option for me. Period

Answer 15

Keep It Abortion is MURDER a baby is a precious gift from GOD plz Keep it and cherish it!

Answer 16

The question is how would you feel if your mom had made a choice of killing you when you were an infant?  You are the adult, and that little life inside you don't know any better, and it wasn't asked to be born, it was born because of two stupid people who thought that they were in love. If you don't want this child you should put it up for an adoption instead of killing it off, or to be suffered by some stupid adult that wished that they never had a baby in the first place. I wouldn't do either one of them cause I had listen to my parents in the first place. You need to think of how God have felt about this instead of your selfish own bratty way.  The reason this guy doesn't want the baby so he can get out of paying for child support is what he wants you to do. Think about it, this guy is a loser, and you were married, left a good guy, and went for a loser instead. Once again sounds like to me he is wanting to get out of paying for child support that he can't even take care or he chooses not to take care of his on kid.  Think about adoption instead.

Answer 17

I Keep The Baby,It was not the babies fault,your totally your mistake because if you are married you are not allowed to meet any one,he is bad guy who don't want to keep baby and he don't understand you so leave him forever and keep the baby with you and good care of it and never see the guy in future.Life is too beautiful to throw away like that., i know its very difficult to survive without a man in the world but not imposible its a good time to prove your self by take care of this baby and best of luck from zaiby.

Answer 18

abortion is sick! i would keep my precious gift from God.

Answer 19

ENGLISH MOTHER****ER DO YOU SPEAK IT?

Answer 20

S/he is your baby too.  You can do it without him.  He could change his mind.  If you have any doubt, don't do it.  Abortion can't be undone.

Answer 21

I would not have an abortion, but I would give the baby up for adoption if I couldn't take care of him or her. I know MANY women who are infertile that are longing to have a baby. It seems that maybe you are asking if you should choose to stay with him or not also. It seems that for knowing someone for so long you would have known a lot about him including if he wanted children or not. I would really take a good look at how well you know him at all. If you do decide to keep the baby I don't think it sounds like he will be of much help. Good Luck!

Answer 22

Iyou have to think if you are ready to raise this child alone. And possibly have your family frown upon you and this child.

Answer 23

This is a very personal decision and you are probably going to get a few "hate" comments. Abortion is very tough decision. If it were me I would have it and either keep it or let someone adopt it. Too many families out there that want to provide a loving home for a baby they can't have.

Answer 24

You don't even have yourself straight and now you want to bring a baby into your mess?  Sounds like you left your husband for a real winner!