Would u let ur son thats 15 have his girl friend spend the night ?

Question

ok i have this friend well her brother is 15 and his girlf/is 14 her parent go to church and clame thy are christines i dont think so myself,but anyway thay let thare 14 year old girl spend the night with her boyf/ also the 15year old boys dad said it was fine but the mother dont like it she has found out that when she would fall asleep at night thay would have s*x so she told her husband and it almost lookes like he all ready new,the mother she has talk yelled everthing at the husband but he lets his son do what ever he want cause the son has a very bad temper all the son has to do is ask and he gets it.my friend said its putting the husband and wife fitting all the time over this and the wife told her husband and the to kids if she ends up with a baby that it will be all thare falts,i just need to know what ways the wife mite do to stop this cause she is always over at the 15 olds house if she not thare he is at hers and her parents let this happen to but,the wife dont know what to do to stop this **** and need help so i told her i would ask this to athers on the net.i would love to help her out but everything i told her to try didnt work.so please help

Answer 1

When I was 15-16, my mum used to let me have my boyfriend over occasionally...but she trusted me and we chose to sleep in different rooms so there was nothing to worry about.

I guess it depends the level of trust you show your children.  

Answer 2

h**l NO!!

Answer 3

NO

Answer 4

Sorry but letting them spend the night together is never a good idea.

Well intentions and all it only takes "once" to get pregnant and that is something a 15 and a 14 year old does not need.

Seeing way too many at this age becoming parents hurts all involved.

Answer 5

she can control her son, she need to sit down with her husband and find out how to control him if he have issues its because they allowed him to grow them

its not going to be easy but they can undo the damage now while he is still a minor. But they need to play as a team on this, they can make life very ahrd on him if he do not respect them because he is not financialy stabile, he fully and totaly relly on them. As such removal of privileges can help, close bank card, put passy on the computer so he cant get on, close the phone, remove movies and games (lock them up where he cant get at them), telling her that she will not stay the nigth, and call her parents to come pick her up.

Make sure there are consequenses for the son trying to sleep over there against their wishes etc.

Answer 6

**Can hardly read this for the lack of punctuation**

No, I dont think under age children should be spending the night with their boy/girlfriends. If I was the parent I wouldnt allow it until the kids are at least 18.

Answer 7

they are way too young to be spending the night together.. come on be serious most kids shouldn't be able to date at this age.  this is crazy

Answer 8

I would not. Because I have common sense.

Answer 9

well first of all the boys daddy n da gurls mama should have never allowed it n da daddy should feel bad if da gurl do have a baby cause it was goin on n his house n if i was da motha i would have whip both their asses cause dat dnt make no sense i kno if would have a baby my mama would beat it out of me so dats jus not right

Answer 10

you know they have spell check, right?

Answer 11

First off, I would have to question the parents of the girl for letting their daughter stay at a guys place that young. However, IF I did let her spend the night, I guarantee I would put a lock on the door, and my butt would be sleeping outside the door, or i would have a lot of bells and noise makers that would wake me up just in case anyone tried to sneak to another room.

but in reality, it would NEVER happen.

Answer 12

NO!  thats just askin for trouble

Answer 13

My son is 16 and he often has his girlfriend sleep in our house or he goes to sleep in her house. It's common, we know our families. when they sleep together, they could touch and do all the stuff without someone bothering them and it's also cute. They have s*x, protected of course. If they want to have s*x, they could ALWAYS have in during the day, so it's not a big difference whether they would be spending the night together or the day.

Answer 14

Yeah jus keep a watch not overprotected watch tho....

Answer 15

no way  

Answer 16

yes it is narural to have s*x  

Answer 17

ummmmm.... NO!!!!!

Answer 18

I would never let my kids boyfriend/girlfriend sleep

over even if they said they didn't have s*x.

Teens these days aren't exactly the same as the teens

in your friends parents generation.

Whenever my friends parents let their boyfriend/girlfriend sleep

over, they would do more then just 'cuddle' or make out.

Oh and about the kid with the temper,

send him to boot camp or a mental health hospital

so they can 're-adjust' his temper.

EDIT!-

It seems like noone read your question...

Answer 19

I'm 14 my mom let's boys spend the night.

But she dosen't let me spend the night there.

Let them cuddle untel you want to go to bed then have your son sleep in your room and the girl sleep in his bed.

Answer 20

me, as a teen, would hate if my parents didnt let me go out w/ a boy/girl friend. give a lil trust. yes, i would

Answer 21

NO!!

Answer 22

i can;t believe u r asking this question

Answer 23

No not at all, its way to risky! Are you prepared for a grand child this early?