Would u think she's spoiled?

Question

You work with a 27 year old young woman who still lives at home and is a little shy. The past two years she had a temporary job but this year she has a permanent job. Her parents said that she'd have to pay them only when she obtains a permanent job. She tells you that her parents do so much for her that she wouldn't feel right not paying rent while she lives at home. She says she doesn't go home and make dinner but she helps around the house a lot. She also said she feels like she should send her parents on a vacation for all that they do. She'd like to move out but says she can't afford to yet.

Would u think she's spoiled? Would u think it's weird that she lives at home? What would u think of her?

Answer 1

dunoo!!!

Answer 2

she sounds like a nice girl ,not spoiled,its easy to get resentful to people who have things easier than us

Answer 3

I think she is smart to live with parents until she can afford to be on her own. I don't think she is spoiled. I would say she is considerate.

Answer 4

I don't think she's spoiled

If she's not yet married, why can't she still live with her parents?

She lives with her parents, she must pay her parents if she has a permanent job and she also must share the housework with her Mom ....  if not, she must be spoiled ....

Answer 5

I don't think she is spoiled because she treats her parents fairly and knows they deserve a big thank you. If she was spoiled, she would expect her parents to do everything for her and not have to pay rent and think that it's fair.

Answer 6

i think its weird that she still lives at home, but i dont think shes spoiled. she still tries to respect and give back to her parents. spoiled people have everything handed to them and generally dont give back. they're trying to help her until she gets back on her feet.

Answer 7

Parents would tend to spoil their children in their own ways.  And you are always their children no matter what age you are at.  I remember, when I was little, I followed my grandma to a restaurant ahead of my mother and my aunts.  Grandma told the waiter that she still had to wait for her children to arrive.

Your friend is lucky that she has a family who can still look after her just as she was a little girl.  Her parents obviously do not have to depend on her to contribute towards their living and love her very much.  Naturally it will be a nice gesture of her to show her appreciation by her contribution to the food and help out around the house from time to time.  Why talk about rent?  Her parents are not running a lodging house, are they?  It's her home since she was a little girl.  It doesn't cease to be her home because she has grown up.  Buying her parents a nice holiday will be like the icing on the cake.

You have descibed her a very nice girl from a very nice family who love her very much.  I don't consider her being spoiled.

Answer 8

I don't think she's spoiled.  Why does it bother you that she still lives at home???  I'd say if she's a nice person, who cares about the rest!

Answer 9

It is not our place to judge anyone. What ever works and people are happy...right?