Would women have as much s*x if men gave them what they wanted without it?

Question

"what they want" Is mostly referring to: 1) Commitment 2) "Love" 3) Intimacy 4) Time/Energy 5) Social value

Answer 1

This is a loaded question. This really depends on the woman's age and availability. I, for one, don't need for my boyfriend to give me anything but he does and then we show each other how much we love each other. That's called:

Mature love.

Answer 2

Too bad that women have learned to use it as a tool to manipulate men with.  It is meant to be mutually enjoyable.  If women had true positive self esteem and didn't use s*x as a tool to get a man, then she could enjoy it for what is and not feel as though it were a bargaining chip. A real woman doesn't toss it around, but saves it for the right guy with a commitment.  Then she can tear the sheets up with him and feel great about it. She knows he is with her for the right reasons...not a physical wrong reason.  We women have got it all backwards.

Answer 3

what if what she wants is s*x?

Answer 4

I just love how you are assuming that s*x isn't enjoyable for women.

Let's set it right men...we want it as bad as you do. We just are condemned by society if we voice that want.

Answer 5

I don't need to be given anything; I enjoy having s*x with my partner. Why must people encourage the myth? Maybe the women who don't want to have s*x with their partners aren't getting any pleasure from them; did you think of that?

Answer 6

When I have s*x (which is not all the time because I would rather be aroused intellectually) it is not for money.

I am offended when guys say "I can pay your light bill." The other day it was "If you get with me, I could make your truck payment." You could have bought him for a penny when I responded "Son, chances are I make more than you and could probably pay yours!"

Not that I was offering.

Answer 7

If men really gave women what they wanted they would want more s*x, not less. Pure joy can only be achieved by commitment to the prize.

Answer 8

The only reason I date men is to enjoy their bodies.  I want nor need anything else from them.  I have other men for enlightened platonic companionship.  I pay my own way and no one owns me.  For me, there is nothing to barter or negotiate, as your question suggests, because "s*x" is basically just animals humping unless the act is an utter simultaneous release of all such meaningless matters and  bottomless collapse into a sanctuary of mutual giving and mercy.  s*x that is about "wants" and bartering falls like REALLY short of the sort of stuff I call s*x.

Answer 9

You've been dating a bunch of golddiggers haven't you?