Would you allow your gf to invite her ex to your wedding dinner?

Question

Would you allow or accept your gf to invite her exs to your wedding?

Answer 1

erm i think for your case..you can allow.. but as for your gf dont she find it uncomfortable? unless her ex is already her best friend  

Answer 2

no that may cause alot of darma  

Answer 3

That just seems like it would be uncomfortable...I would not allow my ex to invite his ex's and I would not be inviting any of mine either.

Answer 4

You start thinking allow as in you will permit or not permit her to do something and you are already putting nails into the coffin of your marriage.   Suspicious and jealous  are just more nails.  If you do not want her to invite someone, say so and she will know how you feel.  I am sure she will take that into consideration if it really bothers you.  You need to understand just why it does bother you and you also need to get off the notion that you are in a position to "allow" anything you are not her father or her owner.  You do not have power over her and there fore you have no power to allow or forbid anything.  You and your intende bride are partners and if you think any other way as in you are superior or above her then your marriage is already doomed.  don't believe me? wait and see.

Answer 5

No. I think that doing that so obviously has ulterior motives on her part. I think you should talk to her about it, see what her motives are, and then see if you are ok with the motives.

I hope you do not mean you are going to "not allow" her. You did mean you are going to raise some objections, didn't you?  If you try forbidding her, I think you will have 2 situations to talk about.  

Answer 6

It depends on their relationship now. If the two of them are best buds and hang out regularly, and there is no drama with anyone, of course he should be invited.

If they hardly ever see or speak to each other and this is kind of an "out of the blue" thing, then h**l No!

Answer 7

depends on how their relationship is at the current point in time. if you still feel uncomfortable about it then probably not. if they're just friends and decent people then why not?

Answer 8

I have invited two of my ex's. One is my best friend in the world and the other is a close friend. He understands.

I would allow him to invite his ex if we both didn't have a restraining order against her LOL.