Would you be able to give me GOOD advice......?

Question

Okay its a little long....and its soughta part 2 of my life......here goes.....Well my friend and i stopped talking 4 months ago cause i made a mistake by her and i tried my hardest to fix it, she told told me we could be friends but i would have to put the effort in cause she can not like me as much anymore.......so anyway i let it go thinking she needed more time.....so anyway a month ago i sent her something that would be the last thing i could do to try and fix what i done so in return she writes me a LONG letter saying how she misses me thinks about me everyday etc etc so anyway i wrote to her saying we should meet up and talk about all this, so a week later she replies saying she is too busy this weekend and next and next but try the week after and she MAY be able to get there, so anyway i let it go for a few eeks and i then text ed her and asked her if i caught her at a bust time and she replied saying yeah why what do u want??? I was shocked and wrote back i want nothing just keeping in touch like what you asked in your letter.....she replies ok no worries.......so i write is that it??? I thought going by your letter u wanted to talk again.....and she writes back saying she did not mean it and she was only being polite, and get over it and mover on with my life and obviously i cant move on etc etc.....i was really hurt cause it was like the letter was a big joke for me to just contact her so she could be mean to me AGAIN........why did she do this?? And what would you have done??? Everyone i have spoken to reckons i did all that a friend could do adn more and she is just being a b*TCH NOW

Answer 1

In life, you'll meet some people who change their minds very quickly and without thinking. Those people who, when it comes to very important decisions, always make the wrong choices. Sometimes we're just moody and we don't wanna be bothered with a whole lot of trouble, that's usually when we make the big mistakes. You know a lot more about your friend than us. So you decide whether she is worth keeping as a friend. How long has she been your friend for? Has she ever stood up for you for something? Helped you in your time of need? Make a list of all of her good qualities and all of her bad qualities. Sometimes even friends will have their rough days when they're take all their anger out on you. Everyone does stupid things. From recent experience, if your friend calls you back apologizing for how rude she was, you need to decide then if she's worth keeping. If she doesn't, then follow her advice and move on with your life. There's lots of great people out there and she never was worth being friends with in the first place.  

Answer 2

I don't know if that's good advice, but make her realize how she was sooooooo very rude! And then forget her. She wants to hurt you but show her that you do not need her and do not let her control you/ your feelings!

Hope that helped!

Answer 3

Other than to me mean and spiteful I have no idea why she would do something like that.  She sounds very immature to me and not worthy of wasting your time over.  You did not share what you did to make her mad but its probably best that you chalk this up to experience, forget all about her and move on with your life.