Would you be angry if your child was marrying an Athei$t?

Question

Would you be angry if your child was marrying an Athei$t?

Answer 1

No.

A because I have no kids

and

B because I am an atheist

EDIT: Whoever said that the child was losing their religion (though I wonder if it's really their religion or just yours?)

EDIT (again!!): For all those that are worried that their child will meet someone from another religion or an atheist, a day may come when your child may stop following the religion you imposed on them. I'd love to know how you'd react then!

And don't say it won't happen because I used to be a devout Catholic and then I became an atheist!

Answer 2

I would not have an issue with it, as long as my child did not let another person influence their beliefs. I am raising my children to educate themselves and go their own path. If they grow up and choose to follow the religion that I do, they can, if not, it is up to them. If they were say Christian, had strong beliefs, but chose to not follow them just to make someone happy, I would have a serious problem with that. Marriage is about compromising but personal beliefs are a different thing.

Answer 3

I wouldnt mind one bit, but I am not religious in the least, so I guess it would be harder for someone that religion is importnt to.

Answer 4

No that would be their choice and I'll respect it. In fact that won't even be an issue to ponder.

Answer 5

No - as long as he was happy with the girl and the realtionship, then that's fine by me!!

Answer 6

YES! YES! YES!

I think that religion is too valuable to lose! Studies have shown that when you have been married for a while couples tend to think a lot alike! You dont want your daughter to lose her believes.

But on the good side she might be the one who convinces him to come to church or temple.

Answer 7

wat is

Athei$t?

Answer 8

Well, I don;t have children, lol, but if I did, no I wouldn't be mad. Religion, race, and beliefs don't play that big of a part when it comes to love. Besides, one of my really really close friends is an Atheist , and she's an amazing person!

Answer 9

well no, but i suppose the fact that i am agnostic effects my response

Answer 10

No, I would not be angry, unless of course she could not back up her beleive system. Just claiming to beleive because it is the "in" thing.

Atheist ism is a religion all on it's own, at least the person (girl) believes in something.....

Answer 11

No religion doesn't bother me

Answer 12

I would actually be relieved!!!

Answer 13

I'm not going to lie and say I'd be comfortable, but religion should be able to teach us to love without discrimination. I'd hope he doesnt forget about his religion and hope he respects his wifes beliefs or lack of as well, at the end of the day all that matters is that they are in love and willing to make it work. So despite the slight discomfort, I'd avoid religious debates and welcome her as my daughter in law because if you take away religion, lack of, race and everything else in between you're left with a being.

Answer 14

no, im baptist, and i dont know what the fuss is about, maybe she/he  hasnt found what she/he can truely belive in yet. (that doesnt mean be pushy with herhim about it, it will ruin your childs and your relationship) with the way life for everyone has been going lately its a bit difficult even for the strongest belivers. dont let it bother you so much, be greatful that your child is there, your child is probablly giving her/him something to belive in, and as they grow she/he will start to wonder. besides your child loves him/her with all their heart and you wont be able to change their mind.  just dont shun her/him if they ever fight or disagree about something. help them work things out if they needed/want it. after  all you should think of him/her as family. just dont get to upset, things will work out. they always do one way or another. and congrats on your upcoming new family member and your future grandchildren. hope i helped.

Answer 15

No. But I'd be upset if he/she was marrying someone who was intolerant of people who believed differently to him/her.

Answer 16

I would be thrilled

Answer 17

I am pretty tolerant, and so I wouldn't really care.  I think that if more people were more willing to accept people who think differently than they do, we would live in a better, happier, healthier world.  

I am not atheist, but close to it.  I don't believe that ANY religion has it right, all are looking for their best interests.   I don't plan on raising my children as any religion, and I hope that they will be as tolerant as I am towards people with different belief systems.

Answer 18

I'd be worried and disappointed, but not angry.  Just sad.  Also, is your child an atheist too?  It's better to marry someone that shares your own religious beliefs--a lot fewer fights, especially if they raise kids together.

Answer 19

wow. I don't think I'd be angry; I might be a little disappointed. I hope we can show our kid(s) what a good Christian marriage is to the point that he/they are interested in emulating a similar one.

Answer 20

I would be upset, yes, but as long as I know my child is strong in his/her faith, and can resist temptation to deviate, and that he/she would be able to stand up for his/herself and not feel like they need to follow their beau, I would be okay with it. I would also need to know if the one they are marrying will try to tempt my child to deviate from their faith.

But talk to your child, ask them why they are making this choice. It may be that they think, and have faith, that they can bring this lost one to Christ.

Answer 21

Personally no, because I'm an atheist. My ex was a devout Christian though and his parents had a real problem with us being together. I'd say as long as your child is in love and it's not an unhealthy relationship then should it really matter? Judge not, lest ye be judged, right?

Answer 22

Not angry, maybe not super excited, but definitely not angry. My entire family who actually still practices their religion is very Roman Catholic. My parents had it forced on them so much and for so long that they chose not to have us baptized and thought that we should choose our own religious path. My three sisters do not practice any religion. I am Christian. I raise my kids Christian, so if one of my girls chose to marry an atheist I might wonder if she would still feel as compelled to practice her own religion.

Answer 23

No, everybody has an opinion and you should respect their opinion.

Answer 24

Yes I would.  My daughter, who was raised Catholic, has decided that she is an atheist for the last 3-4 years.  She recently left her husband and baby for a boy that was suppose to be her and her husbands "friend".  It's because she says she wasn't "happy".  I don't feel she would be able to walk away so easy if she had my beliefs.  She even said, "I don't believe in life hereafter mom so I have to be happy in this life".  True about being happy in this life but her husband was good to her, didn't cheat, worked hard, just was tired and didn't talk.  New guy doesn't work so had plenty of time to talk.  My point is when it gets right down to it the convent of marriage is only sacred if you believe in God.  So how serious is this person going to take their marriage especially when times get tough.  Best of luck.

Answer 25

My mom wouldn't be angry at all. Because she and I both have atheist friends but we both respect our beliefs. I grew up in a home where I was taught about all religions and beliefs so I would become a very open minded and accepting person.

I think my mom would be curious about the person though and ask them a bunch of questions. Not to upset them, because she is just so curious and just wants to know more. Haha, the guy would probably get tired at the end of the day.

But no, my mom wouldn't be mad. My grandmother would and maybe some relatives. But hey, as long as my mom say's yes then that's all I need to hear.