Would you be dissapointed if you had a daughter.?

Question

it seems to me that a lot of people are and regard it less important than having a male

Answer 1

I wouldn't mind one of each.. But I'll stop after 2 whichever they may be.........

Well I'll try to stop after 2 that is =P

Answer 2

I am over the moon to have a daughter. Every father wants a daughter.

Answer 3

i have a son and a daughter. twins and they are 4 years old. i love them both the same and differently at the same time.

Answer 4

Completely, absolutely,emphatically no way!!! I would be so grateful to have the gift of a baby.

Answer 5

I used to say that if I had a girl, I'd leave her on the side of the road to die, which sounds horrible, but after thinking about it. If you have a girl, you get to buy lots of cuter clothes than you can for boys, and when she gets older, hoping that she waits until a good age and gets pregnant, you know for sure that its her baby and you feel more attached to your grandchild. I'd still rather have a boy, but a girl wouldn't be too bad, I'd love her just as much as I would a boy. People like boys better because they aren't as dramatic and whiney most of the time.  Girls come with WAY too much drama.

Answer 6

Before my first was born I guess I wanted a son, if only to look out for his younger siblings that might be along later. My first was a girl; three out of five are. Not one regret ever.  

Answer 7

you know..i really wanted a boy, and i had a girl...i am sooooo happy,  i dont think any respectful mother could be disappointed with her baby...i definately wasnt!

Answer 8

Absolutely NO!  Daughter's are wonderful!  I had a daughter and she has given me nothing but pleasure since the day she was born.  My daughter will be 17 at the end of this month and I love and adore her with all my heart!

Answer 9

I'd love to have a daughter, i dont mind which, son or daughter, dont bother me =]

Answer 10

no way, the is experience better than a mothers love for a daughter

Answer 11

I always wanted two children, a boy and a girl, I now have both and worship them.  It shouldnt matter what s*x your child is, as long as they are happy and healthy.

Answer 12

No Way - I have one of each and I can tell you they are both the joy of my life - no matter what s*x they are.

My daughter is laid back and easy and my son is high energy and fun! I have the best of both worlds!

Does it really matter what s*x you get - I think everyone should just hope for a healthy baby!

Answer 13

No, I am very happy with my girl...however my BIL and his wife just found out the baby they are expecting is a girl and my hubby said that his brother sounded disappointed when he told him?? Weird huh? and My MIL said that when she asked if he had a name he said no cause he thought he was having a boy....

Answer 14

no i would love a little girl i have a little boy already so would love a little girl to have one of each and have experience of bringing up a little girl too

Answer 15

No. I would be thrilled. I have a little boy now and I am thrilled. All I want with my kids is healthy, ten fingers and ten toes all in the right place.  

People that act disappointed because "it's a boy" or "it's a girl" have selfishness issues IMO.  They should be thrilled that they have a child who is healthy and that is part of their family.  Every baby is precious.

Answer 16

I have two daughter and they are the most beautiful angels ever. I always wanted a baby girl and now I have two! They are fantastic and I am sooo in love with them. My first daughter is 26 months and my second is 8 months old. They play together nicely, big sis looks after little sis and it is just too sweet. :-)  

Answer 17

i wanted this child to be a boy ( it is our 1rst child) mostley for my husbands sake. he really wanted a boy, but when we got to the ultrasound he asked the tech if it was a girl, and the tech said yes, my husband said she is so cute, and hasnt even said anything else about a boy.  

Answer 18

Definitely not and i'm not just saying that because i'm female.

I don't have any children but I know that when/if I do i'd be greatful that my child was healthy regardless of the s*x of the baby.

I'd love it no matter what.

Answer 19

Initially, if I'm honest, when I found out at the first scan - yes, I was a little disappointed. Mainly because I wanted to name her after my grandad. And partly because I knew I'd be utterly rubbish (and possibly up on charges) when boys start sniffing around her.

That was then. She's seven months now, and I wouldn't change her for the world.

Answer 20

No i wouldn't. I already have a son and i would love to have a girl next time round. To be honest though i don't really mind which s*x my second baby would be as long as they were healthy and happy, i would still love them as much as my first.

In some countries and cultures though this is the case, families prefer boys to girls as the girls don't keep the family name tradition going - boys do.

Answer 21

With my first I wanted a girl and got a boy.  With my second pregnancy I must have prayed a little too hard because I got a boy AND a girl.  My family could not be happier with the healthy kids.  

Answer 22

I have one of each, my daughter is more like my best friend than a daughter, and my son, well words fail me when it comes to him, he's just my son!!

I love them both equally, and treat them both the same.

Answer 23

No way, my eldest is a girl and when i was pregnant with her i didnt wish for a boy or a girl, my only wish was that my baby was born healthy.

Answer 24

i am due in three weeks and we don't know if we are having a boy or girl, although i feel like it's a boy from the 3d ultrasound.  the reason why we didn't find out is because we really don't have a preference, one way or another.  in fact, i'm at the point where i would be even more excited if it were a girl because it would be more of a surprise.  i can't imagine being dissapointed either way!

Answer 25

Hi Anna,

it doesn't bother me, as long as they are healthy!

I have 2 boys, and am quite happy with that!

My 2 sons are the first boys born in our family for 4 generations.

My mum had 4 girls

my nan had 3 girls

my aunties had 3 girls each

My great nan had 3 girls....

So i was over the moon to know i was expecting boys!

Answer 26

i don't know what kind of people you hang out with that would actually be disappointed about having a certain s*x.  Children (boys or girls) are a blessing!  When you are pregnant, women always say "I want a boy/girl", but when it comes down to it, all that really matters is that they are healthy

Answer 27

no i always wanted a girl. i couldnt be happier even if she was a boy as long as the baby was healthy i could care less about the s*x. but i love my daughter and i wouldnt change her

Answer 28

I was so excited when I found out I was having a little girl.

I did not prefer a certain s*x either way, I was just so happy that I had a healthy baby and everything was fine.

A few weeks before my scan my friend had gone for one at 24 weeks pregnant. She sadly found out that her baby's brain, and skull had not developed. He also had severe heart problems and there was 100% no way that he would survive. She had to give birth to him and her little boy was born dead. She was heartbroken.

So obviously by the time I went for a scan when I was nearly 22 weeks pregnant I could not care about the s*x of the baby. All I wanted was my baby to be healthy.

A baby is a blessing regardless of the s*x. Anyone who can actually be disappointed to have one s*x or another should not be allowed to have children

Answer 29

i wanted a son... only because i was a tomboy and didnt know any girly things to teach my daughter, but now that i have my boy i want a little girl

it had nothing to do with anything besides thinking i would have more in common with a boy

Answer 30

i actually felt that way at one point in time untill i had 3 sons and now im having another and i will be truly disappointed if this is another boy because i want a daughter

i dont know why but for some reason people want to have thier boys first figuring they will protect their daughter in the future

Answer 31

I'd be furious.  I'd be equally as furious if I had a boy though - it would definitely mean the operation had failed and I'd have to start keeping my legs crossed again!