Would you be insulted if...?

Question

Would you be insulted if you asked your only brother to be your best man/groomsman at your wedding and he then didn't ask you to be his?

just curious

Answer 1

There's no etiquette rule that says if you are in someone's wedding, you must ask them to be in yours. That said, if you feel he is making a comment on your relationship by not asking you, then it is something to discuss with him privately.

Best Regards,

Holly

Answer 2

Yeah, I think I might be insulted (I'm a girl, so this answer might be different from what you are expecting), but it also depends on the relationship that you two have. Maybe he doesn't feel the same way about your relationship that you do. I think that the best thing that you can do is ask your brother his opinion and see what's going on. I hope this helped!