Would you be mad if he did this to you?

Question

right my birthday was july just gone and my brother didnt get me nothing but a card .. aparently lost his wallet the day before my birthday and says hes got no money but yet hes lent ALOT of money off my mom.. and his girlfriends birthday is 19th this month ..and hes spent £100 odd on her already and hes got me nothing for my birthday STILL yet?? ...

would you be mad like i am or not?

Answer 1

No. How could i be mad ? I haven't got my brother anything for his birthday for years. It doesn't mean i don't love him though.  

Answer 2

Heck yea i wish my brother would his girlfriend are u serious tell him off thats ur brother u have the right 2 be mad ma

Answer 3

No because I don't care THAT much about material things.  He got you a card.  He remembered your birthday.  No need to be selfish, brothers don't usually remember those things.  xD  I know when it comes to my parents, they get each other much better gifts than their siblings.  Don't be offended, it's a different type of love.  A different type of affection.  

Maybe he doesn't know what you want and was embarrassed to admit it.  Think about that, too.

Edit:  Maybe he really was low on cash.  You don't know what he spends it on  and obviously he spent some on his girlfriend.  he really could just be low on cash.  Let it go, it doesn't mean anything.  You're still his sister.

Answer 4

Don't get mad---get even.  When his birthday rolls along, get him exactly what he got you---a card and that's it.  If he wanted to, he could have once again went to your mom and got the money to get you something.  The girl might be a gold-digger and using your brother for his money---never know.

Answer 5

i wouldn't be mad. i'd be happy he remembered, at least.

but i dont really make a big deal of bdays, so that just me.

Answer 6

I wouldn't be mad. My brother never gets me anything for my birthday.

Answer 7

  I thought girls didn't like to be reminded of birthdays? Can't have it both ways. A card should be enough, depending or your age. That's your boyfriends job to make you feel special.Get over it!

Answer 8

Don't be worried about gifts

You got lot of stuff ahead of you

Answer 9

yes i will be mad! but i know my brother will rather get me something than his wife! yeah i love my brother! just let it go but keep in mine other occasions such as Christmas and stuff like that. wait to see if he is going to say oh i didn't have money or whatever other excuse! good luck