Would you be mad if you read a message on your friends phone...?

Question

saying I don't want to go to the party with just her?

Ok I will make this easier...I was texting my friend(lets call her Molly) and we were talking about a party and the only people who were definitely going of my friends were Sarah and Betty. And I said I didn't want to go on my own with just Sarah and Betty and I said this to Molly. Then Betty read the message. Would you be mad if you were Betty?

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

I would be a bit because it would mean she wasn't happy just going with me. It's a bit rude and it's betraying Betty.

Is Betty a better friend than Molly?

If she is then it is a bit rude, it's still a bit mean either way.

But Betty should be over it by next week.

Answer 3

I would only be mad because I didn't know the whole context so I would jump into conclusion. Just explain what you meant by the text and hopefully this helps.

Again, I understand why she would be mad, but I'm sure her feelings are more hurt. Just explain and she should understand. Hope that helps.

Answer 4

I think you need to explain the entire situation and your reasons to Molly. Then, if she isn't an over-dramatic teenage girl, she should understand. BTW... perhaps if you went with just Betty you could get to know some of that large group of friends that you dont know so well. Then when this happens again it wont be an issue.