Would you be mad if your boyfriend...

Question

Would you be mad if your boyfriend had a best friend ((female and has known him longer than you)) and they talked to each other ALL the time,, yet you know NOTHING is going on?

My mother is convinced my best friends girlfriend is probably pissed because of how much I talk to her boyfriend. She also told me that at this rate I'll probably be "the other woman" in relationships ((she was joking...))

Answer 1

It would be no biggie to me if you and the guy have know each other as long as you say, but it wouldn't be a bad idea to kind of let her in a little more so she doesn't feel left out of anything.

Answer 2

Yes I would probably get upset and mad, because when your the girlfriend and he talking to his "home girl" more than he is you there's a problem. Don't deny it, when your the girlfriend you dont have to be EVERYTHING but you do want to be the major! Not 2nd or 3rd.

Answer 3

as long as nothing was going on and he still spent enough time with me i wouldn't really mind.

Answer 4

As long as he doesn't.. act like he is ignoring you or loving you any less because of the girl.. I mean people are friends and we can't change so I wouldn't be too worried... but then again a lot of friends tend to fall in love with friends.. it usually doesn't work out though.. idk just see how he acts around both of you in the same room.

Answer 5

haha well i was actually in that situation

my ex's best friend was a girl and some days he would talk to her more then me. but i never worried about it, like they even did stuff that most would consider flirting, but i knew they thought of eachother like brother and sister.

but it did help that she was also my best friend.. and he was my best guyfriend before we started dating lol

dont worry about it. your not doing anything wrong so theres nothing to worry about

yes, the girlfriend might get a little jelous but im sure your best friend will straighten that out all by himself.

:DDD  

Answer 6

i will not trust him at all.second i will look for some one Al's

Answer 7

i would kinda be mad because even tho he didnt like her she m,ight like him and they could flirt and stuff

Answer 8

THATS A HARD ONE!! ARE YOU SURE NOTHING IS GOING ON?! I DONT THINK ITS A BAD THING IF THERE IS LOTS OF "TRUST" IN THE RELATION SHIP  

Answer 9

Okay, I was kind of at the other end in this story. I was the girlfriend.

I remember getting really jealous of the friend because my boyfriend would talk to her and paid more attention to her. It really drove me mad, because

I just felt like he's **** buddy, while his friend got got all the other attention.

And yeah, it caused a lot of fights. I felt really intimidated by her.

It was like he had two girl friends...besides he didn't do anything sexual with the other one.

Its human emotions, I'm sorry you got caught up in the middle of this.

I don't know. Try being friends her. This is tough.

Maybe  get a boyfriend so she wouldn't be intimidated?

sorry, not very good advice.

But don't let the girlfriend brake you and your friend apart. Trust me, she will try!

Human nature, it can be evil.

Good luck!

I hope everything works out

Answer 10

i wouldn't be mad, i mean you two were friends FAR before she came in the picture, i'd never ask my boyfriend so give up friends because of me, expically life long ones. i think your fine

Answer 11

I wouldn't be mad, but I might feel jealous.

You could always try to keep things going smoothly by becoming friends with her, too. But this is only a good idea if really, truly, sincerely you have no interest in your guy friend other than friendship.  

Answer 12

i think there is a point where the "best-girl-friend" needs to take a step back. You need to respect her and imagine how you would feel if you were her. If hes really your best friend, you dont want to ruin his relationship so still remain friends, but on a much lower level

Answer 13

No I wouldnt. because his bestfriend and your boyfriend talk about stuff and he even gets advice from her about you!

Answer 14

Yes, because I am the jealous type.

Any jealous woman would feel threatened.

You need to give the couple space while you maintain your friendship, if you truly do not want to cause problems for him.

Answer 15

not really mad but jealous... i wish i could be less jealous :(

Answer 16

i wouldn't be mad. you shouldn't have to prove anything to her

Answer 17

if my boyfriend were spending more time with another girl, and/or talking to another girl more than me then ya, i'd be pissed. girl guy friendships become complicated when one of them starts dating someone. if he is truly your best friend then don't stop talking to him. maybe you three should hang out sometimes so she knows that you're not trying to steal her man...but be careful not to be too close to him or leave her out of the conversation. just think about how you would feel in the same situation

Answer 18

As long as you both know there is nothing going on then everything should be just fine. My best friend is a male, we have been friends since we were 9, now 20 years later he is still my best friend. We talk often and he gets along well with my husband. He is not married however I usually get along with all of his girlfriends. As long as they have trust in their relationship then everything will work out.

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Answer 19

depends, the guy in all right can be friends with whoever he wants. if my bf was friends with a girl that was a flirt or hit on guys alot then yea i would be pretty ticked off. Also if other ppl inply that you two are flirting.

thats just me, most girls are fussy and hate anyone in their territory. and talking to him would deffinately be in their territory. they dont care how long or w/e, if they are dating him they want to be teh one and only