Would you be mad??

Question

My boyfriend and I live together. He goes to his daughters moms house to see her 2x a week. I know he doesn't want to be with her, but I'm not so sure about her. We don't really have money for him to take her out everyday. And I know on the days that he does has money he takes her out.

Anyway my question is would you be mad if you were me?

Answer 1

i wouldnt so much be mad but im sure if i were in your situation i would be curious just like you.... maybe the two of you could agree on spending time with his daughter together .... so you would be able to kno first hand what is going on when he visits her..... that is if he doesnt mind you sharing father daughter time!

Answer 2

If he is taking his daughter out. No, u shouldn't. But if he is taking his ex out. Yea u can be made cause that’s a little strange.

Answer 3

if u think u can trust him...then trust him.

Answer 4

You should be mad, especially if he is taking her out, on your

money. <}:-{(

Answer 5

well yes i would but i am a really jealous girl LOL but i would talk to him. i think you should do the same, talk to him and tell him how you feel. i know that must be difficult because she is his daughters mom but you are his girlfriend and he has to respect the place you have in his life. just be honest with him. don't be mad and don't make a drama. you are a really mature woman and he knows it. so what you need is to sit and talk.

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Answer 6

taking the daughter out is fine.

so is taking her out.

theyre just being mature.

don't worry.

good luck !

Answer 7

Why can't you take part in these visits and build a relationship with the child yourself??? If the mother wont allow that - then yes she may still have hopes for this family to be reunited and you do have a right to feel insecure but not mad at the child or it's father. You have to communicate with him about this and see how he feels about you taking part in the childs life. If you are living together it is obviously a serious relationship you are in and you deserve to be a part of the life he also has has with his child..