Would you be more gutted if your wife was having an affair with a....?

Question

Say your wife or girl friend was a teacher. Would you be more gutted if she was having an affair with a male teacher her age or having a sexual relationship with a male student half her age.

Same question for women. If your husband or boy friend was a teacher... female teacher or female student.

Answer 1

My heart would be broken if he was having an affair with a fellow teacher.  If it was a student, I'd have his butt thrown in jail.

Answer 2

Student b/c it would tell me she has more problems than just infiidelity.

Answer 3

it has to be the student half her age, because if that made sense to her then what made sense to her when she married you?

Answer 4

I say a teacher their age. At least he/she wouldnt be an adulterer AND  a pedophile.

Answer 5

I contend it would be not different emotionally, because the break of the trust one has in someone to be committed to you alone is where the emotional pain starts and end. However, there will be some major financial and legal issues that the family also will have to face with the discover the affair was with a minor.

I contend that trust is like a glass, once cracked or broken it can never be fixed to its original form.