Would you be really hurt if...?

Question

if you were a girl and a boy you really liked asked you out but then came out of the closet about being g*y

would you be hurt and feel used?

and if so could you ever find it in yourself to forgive him if he apologized for using you and would you still want to be friends with him?

Answer 1

Actually I would be really confused & I think kind of upset. Because if he knew he was g*y then why'd he even ask you out? Maybe yeah, he had feelings for you too but still yet he should have been honest with you. But on the other hand maybe he was scared of how your reaction was going to be and maybe you would judge him because of that, but still that gives him no right to lie to you. He shouldnt have asked you out if he was g*y. But yes, still be friends with him because maybe he'll think that your judging him. But think things over, and talk it over with him. Put yourself in his shoes and think what you would do. If you still need more advice email me. Good luck!

Answer 2

I would be disappointed but if he apologized and really meant it then i would forgive him. Yes i would still be friends with him.

Answer 3

I don't think I'd think he tried to use me or anything. I wouldn't be hurt.  I'd feel sad for him keeping it inside, feeling unable to tell, and would be wondering why didn't I notice. I'd want to be his friend and know him better, if that's what he wanted.