Would you be upset......?

Question

if you were going out of town on business for the weekend, so you decided to make a nice romantic meal for your husband, bought his favorite wine, lit the candles, dropped the kids off at grandmas and he came home with Wendy's and actually sat there and ate it? How P.O.'d would you be?

Answer 1

I'm assuming that you are PO'd because he knew that you were doing this for him.  

If he did this then you may need to have a talk to him and find out what exactly is upsetting him.  There could be a whole bunch of things that are pressing his buttons.  Find out what it is!

Answer 2

Uh, I wouldn't be p.o.'d if he didn't know I was planning something.  And you don't wanna waste food.  The meal you made would probably keep better than the fast food.  The whole "romantic dinner" thing isn't really our thing anyway.

Answer 3

I'd tell him to go get from Wendy what you were planning on giving him.

Answer 4

I'd be like, Wendy's? I want some! It's way better than fast food, it's Wendy's! Seriously though, I wouldn't care. I almost never cook, wait, I never cook, so him not expecting a meal when he comes home is perfectly fine and him not wanting to eat what I've cooked is probably even better!

It sounds like you made this meal more for yourself to set a certain mood than for your husband. Eat what you made.

I don't think there is anything romantic about a meal that can't be just as romantic over take out or even junk food. Open the bottle of wine (I'd rather be drinking liquor myself...), put on some music if that's what you like, blow out those candles (you don't want to relax too much around candles anyways you know...) and have fun.

Seriously, s*x isn't about some prissy and emotional romantic production like it is in movies. It's just raw, physical enjoyment. The kids are gone, make some noise!

Answer 5

Wow! I would be upset, that's for sure. Why on earth would he sit there and eat his Wendy's knowing full well what you had done?? Not too smart of him.

Answer 6

I would have taken the Wendys away from him and sat him down to eat the meal you fixed.

Answer 7

I'd be pissed.  I don't know what I would do...but it wouldn't be nice!

Answer 8

If my husband did that to me I would say he was pissed off at me. No man that has any brain or cares for his wife would eat Wendy's after knowing his has a nice home cooked meal.  

Answer 9

WENDY SOUND GOOD TO ME ?   IS THERE A CABLE T.V  IN THE BEDROOM ?    

Answer 10

He cannot be held responsible if he didn't know beforehand that you were going to cook this wonderful and elaborate meal for him.  It would have been nice if he would have refrigerated that meal and chosen yours instead, but he couldn't read your mind.  I'd be a little upset, but I wouldn't leave for an out of town business trip with anger in my heart.  Life is much too short!

Answer 11

I would be P.O'd.  However, I would be more concerned with why he isn't interested in my efforts for having a romantic evening.  I am a little suspicious of this type of behavior.  You have taken a lot of time and effort in planning this and he blows you off.  Does he have valid reasons to act this way?  Is he possibly cheating on you?  It just does not add up.  Is he upset that you are going out of town?  After, this I would wonder what is his ulterior motive.

Answer 12

I would be so pissed!!!  But I would try to get over it don't ruin your weekend!!

Answer 13

You simply need to train your man better!

Answer 14

I would think that you just might be P.O'ed enough to combine pleasure with that business trip.

Answer 15

Maybe not PO'd, but he sure wouldn't be getting dessert!  :o)

Answer 16

If he knew about it then yes I would be really P.O.d .

If he didn't know about then I would be a little upset .

You have to take into consideration that if he did not know what you were planning then you can't much blame him .

He himself probably thought he was doing a good gesture by stopping and getting something so you would not have to cook .

As far as him going ahead and eating it he probably didn't want it to go to waste because any more even Wendy's & McDonald's are expensive .

Answer 17

yeah, that was intentionally rude on his part.

the apprecaitive side of me would be to smile from ear to ear and gently place the "cheap" meal (wendy's) in the fridge.  

have a seat at the table to enjoy a fine "homecooked meal" and  then with some wime............mmmmmm..mm..m.

he messed up, but he has you, so he's still doing something right.  

go easy on the guy ...........this time.  

Answer 18

I come home from business trips all the time.. When I'm coming home I'm not thinking of a romantic meal..I thinking how fast i can get home and relax...  

Answer 19

Very!!!  C'mon...he should have ditched his $8 meal...it will cost him a lot more than that now!!!

Answer 20

Well, his loss would be the dog's gain. Other than that, if that's what he wants to eat, I'm not going to get upset over it.  Heck - light the candles, put some music on, he can have his burger and I'll have the Cordon Bleu ;)

Answer 21

I'm not a woman, but I'd have smashed his Wendy's burger in his face and thrown his romantic meal in the garbage, dumped his favorite wine down the sink and cracked the bottle over his head. Just my opinion.

Answer 22

This sounds really familiar, my ex was being deployed so the weekend before he left, i made a romantic weekend plan. Friday i was going to cook this great dinner, and then serve me for desert, and i dont remember what i had planned the rest of the weekend, because by the time he got home it was 3 in the morning, he was drunk, and i was sleeping...

I was so mad, i didnt talk to him the whole time he was home until the day he left....

Answer 23

wow.  that's all i can say about that dude.  just...wow.

I think it's safe to say, i'd be pissed.

Answer 24

Shoot i'd throw that wendy's out the window if my women did that. I guess he doesn't appreciate it.

Answer 25

I'd be pretty pissed to be honest.  Now, you could have at least told the guy "hey, I'm planning something for you so don't get dinner & don't eat before you come home."  But still, the minute he saw the candles, wine and dinner you prepared, he should have hugged you, said I love you, and thrown his Wendy's in the fridge for tomorrow's lunch!!!