Xpert: I'm friendly w my teachers, but I would NEVER be friends or socially hang out w a teacher or guidance counselor. That's a different scenario, though. Obviously, my teachers know what grade I'm in, & it would be incredibly creepy & unethical for them to want to be friends w me. None of my teachers ever have or ever would do that. If I'd met these guys while wearing my school uniform I'd have been v. suspicious of them wanting to be friends w me, but we met at a university hangout where everybody is a student, including the guys & I. They look younger than they are, I look older than I am. Everyone was innocent. I am extremely cautious about who I hang w, & if I'd thought they were pervs or predators I'd never have hung out with them. They aren't. If I'd known their age right away I wouldn't have either. I didn't know for weeks, & by that point I already considered them to be friends. I'm spending the summer away from all my friends & bf, and I'd have been so lonely without them.
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