Would you comfort someone that was talking **** about you or leave it alone?

Question

I think comfort is the word.

Answer 1

It depends on who has told me about it.  Some people just like to stir up trouble and will flat out lie to you about this kind of thing.

I agree, though - I would confront them if it's causing an issue.  If it's not really causing any trouble (i.e., a co-worker said I was being a little ***** one day and it got back to me), I couldn't care less and I'll leave it alone.

Sometimes you have to just be the bigger person and let it go.  There will always be someone talking **** about you through out your life.  Not all of them are worth confronting.

Answer 2

Confront?  or Comfort?  those are two different things... Hey I am in a mood so I will take on both

Confront them if they are talking behind your back h**l YA!  Walk right up to them and say "who do you think you are talking about me behind my back, I thought you were my friend.

Comfort?  Why would you give comfort to someone who was talking smack about you?

Best of luck

Answer 3

I think you mean "confront" and you should just leave it alone. It will make it more dramatic if you confront them. Just let them talk about you behind your back! You are better than them if you don't spread the gossip and play into their game.

Answer 4

Why should I comfort a person who is belitttling or abusing me???

Answer 5

confront is the word your looking for lol.

i'd confront them, i wouldnt let anyone get away with talking about me like that, always stick up for yourself cause at the end of the day you only really have yourself.

Answer 6

It depends. Why are they talking c**p about me and why do they need comforting?

EDIT: Oh, it depends on what they are saying. but probably not, why waste my energy on them, they obviously have no life, whereas i have a life and don't have time or energy to waste on someone so useless.

Answer 7

That kind of things happens to everyone, I can't tell you the number of times I heard people talking about me behind my back, with me in ears ways. People I didn't know mind you.