Would you consider it wrong?

Question

would you consider it wrong for a 15 year old and a 21 year old to like each other like in a dating sense not in the moment of them being that age but with in a few years?

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21 minutes ago

well the girl is 15 and really I don't think it's looking at a dating situation right now. lets just say right now they are good friends and talk a lot.

They share intrest in things. mainly their faith.

they met at bible camp.

17 minutes ago

both don't believe in s*x before marriage or any thing physical.

14 minutes ago

one other thing is neither of them have said they like each other in that way to eachother only actions that add up say it. I won't go over it all but there is a lot nothing physical but just how they put each other first and spend so much time talking.

Answer 1

If a 21 year old guy dates a 15 year old girl, and they don't do anything sexual, there is nothing illegal about that.

Answer 2

not really my aunt and uncle are like 10 years apart

Answer 3

not at all as long as the 21 year old respects and dose not pressure 15 year old  

Answer 4

this is a really tough question for me because usually i would say absolutely that a 21 year old has no business with a 15 year old. however if there is really no physical contact and it is more like a friendship, then i would be ok. but to be honest a friendship that you described is rare. and the only thing that makes it acceptable in my eyes is the whole sharing of faith thing. it is really hard for a christian girl to find a boy that is not just trying to get in her pants. but be warned that boys can be very convincing. if you or your friend or who ever the girl is is wanting this to continue, i suggest a lot of prayer for guidance. and pray that you are not deceived. listen to the holy spirit, he will guide you. or her, or whoever. lol. good luck. be blessed in Jesus name!  

Answer 5

age is just a number.

Answer 6

Not wrong at all :)

Answer 7

Stuff happens, I'd be against it if it were my son or daughter on either side of the equation.

Answer 8

They both have SOOOO much growing up to do, especially the 15 year old.

Plus what kind of a LOSER 21-year-old has to even THINK about dating a 15 year old?

Answer 9

There is nothing to consider wrong, unless one is leading the

other on...usually in a much grater age difference, at this age

believe it or not ... your kind of still equally matched.

Because ....boys mature a little later than girls , sometimes up

to 4 years behind or more :  so if you look at it this way you can

see why you may have that mutual attraction .

And also sometimes a 15 year old girl can be as mature as a 17

year old depending on her growing up and maturity.

The thing is neither of you have stepped out of line, so there

is no reason to feel guilty ..... you can be good friends, but

providing you both realise temptation is only a door away, take

your time with this ....slow down a little and make sure your

both seeing plenty of the opposite s*x as friends and have time

for others as much as each other.

Answer 10

There's a significant age difference between them; however, wasn't it once said that, "Nothing about love could be considered wrong"? Well, it seems a little off because the 15yr old is considered an adolescent to a more 'experienced' 21yr old. I feel that as long as you both know boundaries, and keep your ethics and morals in line, you should be alright ^_^

P.S. There's nothing wrong with liking each other ^_^

Good luck!!!!

~*WinglessAngel*~