Would you date a man whos in the process of a divorce?

Question

Ladies..lemme hear allyuh opinion?

My opinion: I figure he cud be in d process of gettin a lot of thingz and never get it done, & frankly, I eh want tuh be nobody rebound chic.. plus I have a hard time having respect for a man who's "in the process" and playin the field..besides.. getting a divorce is not being divorced.. and after that.. I would want him to be single for a while so dat he could re-establish and rebuild.. I eh interested in being nobody Ms. Good Enough for rite now

FYI: for the record.. I eh datin no man in d process of a divorce eh.. so doh geh no ideas.. is juss a question...

Answer 1

well it depends..

different people different circumstances. sometimes all love is really lost & no hope for reconciliation.

i guess if the situation ever happens like that there is no use not trying something that cud have been great, if it turns out badly, mistakes happen, for sure i wont be the first of last to do it..

i've seen it happen alot ppl getting divorced but starting new relationships, so maybe thats why i feel positive bout it..

but say what, noone is perfect and we are all entitled to our own mistakes..

Answer 2

to be honest with you when I met my husband he was "in the process" of a divorce. He was divorced a month later after we met.  But if it's one of those situation where the guy is still living with his wife and he's telling you that they don't sleep in the same bed or he only there for the children then you need to leave him alone cuz that is nothin but pure drama waiting to happen.

Answer 3

I wouldn't date someone else's leftovers anyway especially if it is not over yet

Answer 4

it depends on how far along the process is.  cause if he's just waiting to sign the papers after 2 years of being in court and just waiting to get it over with, then why not?

however, if the both of them still living in d same house, and the process now start, then is OK. i dont need that.  and if he playing the field, then worse again.

Answer 5

Aye, Answer fair yuh ha any chewen gum or channa dey gurl? Ah feeling pepy ah jus' wha' l**k on som t'ing...

Anyway, if she dey for meh and we understand each other h**l yuh.  Life to short enjoy the t'ing even if drama involve.  Universe is 6 Billion years we only get 70 if we lucky...

Answer 6

#1. If l'm the reason he getting the divorce in the 1st place, h**l yes.

#2. If not then while he in the "process" of getting the divorce, I'll be in the process of making up my mind.

No ringy no thingy!

Answer 7

No never...It would be a waste of my time and I am too much of a lady to lower myself to someone's trash...l agree with you one hundred percent

Answer 8

it depends on the particular circumstances of the divorce and the individual man and his take on the divorce etc .....

Answer 9

No. I wouldn't date a man who is in PROCESS of a divorce. Unless you see the papers for yourself. Alot of men say that and it never happens.

Answer 10

I would want him to be 100% single before I getting involved with him.  Me personally, I feel if he is in the process of getting a divorce, there is always a small chance that he and the wife can always get back togehter and forget about the divorce all together.

Answer 11

If he is rich - maybe I would

Honestly it all depends on the situation.  If his wife was the one who requested the divorce - then no problem (I won't feel guilty)  If he filed for the divorce and his wife is against it (I would feel awkward and the chances of being labelled a "family destroyer" is pretty strong even if you had nothing to do with it.

If Kids are involved, then I wouldn't