Would you date any of these guys?

Question

Before I began people tell me I should give up and that we live in 2008. s*x is normal before marriage and so on.Or people tell me not to be a snob or some call me a gold digger. But I want you all to be the judges. Also am 21 years old and never had s*x, I was hoping for my knight to come...and well in my opinion too many...well only toads.

1) New-yorker (I live in Florida) very cute looking guy, 22 years old, works at a pizza place, not sure about college anymore, was suppose to be my first date ever and ruined it by trying to have s*x with me the first time we met. He said we could be together after s*x to see if I would be any good.

2)65 year old guy promised me a Mc Donald's meal and a outside movie if I have s*x with him at will...guess that includes super sizing my meals, and he smokes and drinks.

3)44 year old, homeless, looking for a women, gets a check and promises to never leave me.

4)21 year old guy from Africa promised to take me back and he would take care of me if I have his kids and be the women of the house. My job would be to get wood and cook and his would be to hunt..........I thought he was joking, but he was very serious.

5) 23 year old pretty boy, has 9 ex girlfriends already, and he said he drinks lightly, his goal in life is to become a model.

And I have many more. But these are the type of guys I ALWAYS get..............why is that? And I hate being rude, but the ones above and any others I never dated or stayed in contact. I believe I did the right thing, but hate being single.............whats wrong with guys today?

Answer 1

mmm the pretty boy sounds good to me =D haha

Answer 2

)65 year old guy promised me a Mc Donald's meal and a outside movie if I have s*x with him at will...guess that includes super sizing my meals, and he smokes and drinks.

Answer 3

expectations and prejudice. Many guys see in women who dint give it up before marriage women who want to pressure the guy into marriage to CASH OUT in divorce. But I think there should be more women like you. If guys want to have s*x instead of a wife they should go to a brothel. Unless if your mom filed for divorce, then you would be virging for life if it would be up to me.

Answer 4

ouch. That sucks... Just don't lower your standards and keep looking.

But I understand what your saying and it isn't just guy's. Let's face it some people run into Murphy's law more then others.

My luck when it comes to women I am attracted to and seem to get along good (mutual attraction) usually turns out she is A) Married, B) In a relationship,

C)L*****n and where not on the same page.. or D) Psycho...

You just have to try and learn the warning signs, and be patient.

      

Answer 5

Well looking at it from a realistic standpoint, you aren't going to find some prince in shining armor who carries you away to private island were you have hot, passionate s*x and drink mojitos all day.

However, with all that being said, you can realistically hope to find a guy who compliments you as a person and brings a little added spice and flavor to your life.

21 is an odd dating age. I'm 21 and single for the first time in years. You're generally too old for the young ones and too young but ridiculously appealing to the old ones. All the ones in the middle are either in the relationships they've been in for years, already married or just in the mood to party and be in the company of pretty women for a night or two. Or so it seems.

With all this being said, it's entirely possible that you will find someone but you're still 21. People are living longer these days and it's socially acceptable for a woman to put off marriage and a family. If you don't find the right guy tomorrow or 5 years from now then there is nothing to be ashamed of. You'll have just spent some time figuring out what guy works for you and what you want in the confines of a relationship.

No worries. There are plenty of wonderful, intelligent and hard working guys out there.

The best relationships always come when you aren't looking and you don't even expect it.

Answer 6

All of these men sound rather unappeling to me, and none of them seem to be offering you much in the way of a relationship, except perhaps the AFrican man who was making a presumably serious proposal of marriage, offering you the kind of life that women in his society would expect to live.  It might not be your cup of tea (certainly wouldn't be mine) but at least his intentions seem to have been honourable.

I certainly wouldn't fancy the model, but then pretty boys are not my thing at all.  Also, there are serious disadvantages to dating extremely good-looking men, as there tend to always be a lot of other women hanging around like circling sharks waiting to move in for the kill.

When i was young, I had s*x with a lot of men on the first date, with many of them I had s*x before we even had a date.  However, none of them ever told me that they would go on seeing me if I was good at s*x, even if they thought that, they had the sense to keep it to themselves.

I can't believe that all young men are this uncouth nowadays, some must have more finesse than that surely?  I think you've just been unlucky.

Answer 7

Number 4

Answer 8

I wouldn't date any of the guys. Guys now days just what to have s*x with as many women as possible and none of them seem to have a future. Guys forgot how to be gentlemen now days and lost all manners.

Answer 9

I wouldn't date any of these guys.

Number # might draw me in for a little while but I think I'd get annoyed with him after a while, not so much about the s*x thing but the ambivalence about college.