Would you date me? [boys or girls i don't care]?

Question

Okay, I am 5'4, 211lbs [on weight watchers trying to loose weight] 38D bra cup. I'm a shy girl, but I am improving alot! :D I was just wondering what your opinions were. I was just trying to see why I don't have a boyfriend yet or 1st kiss. Please help and try not to be rude! Thank you. :)

Answer 1

Cant tell without a photo but its probably the shy thing. Same with me only Im pretty skinny. If your shy people arent interested it the sad fact of socialising.

Answer 2

you seem a bit optimistic and not that "self-conscious" about your weigh i'm assuming. I'll probably take hang out with you at some place informal.

Answer 3

girl don't worry about it. You sound like you are describing me at 17. The first and only guy i ever dated was at 17. He didn't treat me well, and that was that. The truth is that there are lots of shallow people out there. I now know what i want and choose not to date. I have had offers. It is hard to find a descent guy. Its probably cause all the good  ones are shy like us. Also think about it like this... if you lost lots of weight and guys liked you because you were thin , then would they be the kind of guys you would want to date in the first place? You should never have to change yourself for anyone. Everyone has their own definition of beauty.  

Answer 4

no even if i was a guy but u should give a picture sorry

Answer 5

Nope. You should include your age too. Cause if you are like 15 and weigh 211 then yeah that's probably why. But you're trying to go down so that's a plus. Guys are mostly into slim and curvy girls. Good luck