Would you do this to a close friend??

Question

If you were in a relationship with someone and your boyfriend/girlfriend told you that you couldn't talk anymore to one of your best friends that is of the opposite s*x and you share mostly everything with each other, would you do it? Or would you just tell him/her to kick rocks? Why or why not?

Answer 1

kick rocks because you choose to be with him not your friend, and he should trust you enough to hang out with him!

Answer 2

This is the first sign he is showing of being a "control freak"!

I would tell him to "Poke off and that you will be friends with whom you wish and for him not to tell you what to do again otherwise you will walk away"

Answer 3

No, not because you open a new relationship you are closing the old ones. maybe your boyfriends or girlfriend is just being selfish.

Answer 4

that's one thing that i never understood.  you value your relationship with your friend more than your lover.  ???

the decision is yours

what is it about this friend that doesnt make them bf/gf material. ?

I would never leave my lover for a "friend"

If they are really your friend than the would understand that you have a relationship with someone that is important to you and would support that

but it sounds like you have your mind made up

if it were me i would choose a happy life with my lover and tell everyone else their services are no longer needed.

whats the point of having a bf/gf if you cant be their all in all??

Answer 5

he is loyal and just wants loyal people, he is aware how too much influences wont make you think for yourself, assure him you can balance and he will be ok