Would you do your wedding over again?

Question

I don't know about you, but now looking back I wish I could do my wedding over again. I only got married 3 months ago! I wish I could have a wedding for every season! I loved planning my wedding..I only wish it could have been bigger and way better! Do you feel the same as me?

Answer 1

No.  I got married in June and everything turned out beautifully, but there is no way I would want to do everything all over again. LOL  Maybe you should consider helping others plan their weddings as a kind of job, so you could share your enthusiasm and ideas with other brides to be who are stressed.

Answer 2

I loved everything about my wedding, and wouldn't have wanted a thing to be changed...there was no way it could have been better. Wedding planning was a fun season in mine and my husband's life, but it was amazing how easily I transitioned to not thinking about wedding stuff anymore...I know some folks go through the post wedding-planning blues, but I definitely didn't. It's nice to have spare time for reading and painting again...and spare time for adventures with my husband!  

Answer 3

Nope.  Our wedding was perfect, and more than enough work and expense to put together the first time.  It's time to look towards the future, not back into the past.

Answer 4

Absolutely not!  Even though a lot of things went wrong (my MOH, also my sister, had her baby the night before, and couldn't be there, and another one of my bridesmaids got sick during the wedding, and couldn't make it to the reception), it was still the most memorable and special day of my life, and I wouldn't want to change it for the world!  Plus, one of my special memories was that of my husband and I going to the hospital that night, after our receiption, and seeing and holding my nephew for the 1st time.  That is by far one of my favorite wedding pictures!

Answer 5

Yes, but I didn't "plan" my wedding; it was informal and kind of spontaneous, and I would do it all over again. If I had to plan and have a "real" wedding - no, no way.

Answer 6

I'm getting married in three weeks, so right at this moment, NO.

Ask me again in a year, lol.  

Answer 7

I was married 6 months ago, and I absolutely loved our wedding. It was such great fun, but I think I'd like to just keep my memories of the day and not a re-do. I felt it was absolutely perfect, so I don't think I could make it any better, no matter how much planning I did

Answer 8

YES! I would have gone to Vegas, and spent less then 1/2 of what I did for my small wedding. No room mates. ONly family would have been invited.  

Answer 9

I got married on the 4th of May this year!!

And id do anything to do it again!!

Ive realised that my whole wedding was planned for everyone else if that makes sense!!

I never actually thought about what i wanted....

Id love to do it all again!!

xx

Answer 10

Nope. The point of having a wedding is so that you can have a marriage! Honestly, it's not healthy to be more focused on one day than you are on spending the rest of your life with this man. I loved my wedding and I had fun planning it, but it was one day - an event that lasted less than 12 hours out of the 60+ years that I hope to spend with my husband. Focusing on that one day is like trying so hard to re-live your child's first birthday that you miss out on every other significant milestone she ever has. You wouldn't sit at your daughter's high school graduation and think, "Gosh, if only I'd had pink balloons at her first birthday party!"

It's rarely a good idea to focus so much on the past that you forget to enjoy the present or look forward to the future. You're married to the man of your dreams! That's amazing! Spectacular! Wonderful! You are going to get to share so many things with him - your first Christmas and all the Christmases that will follow, your first house, pregnancy, your first child, birthdays, new jobs, family vacations, new friends, raising your kids, your first grandchild, retirement, etc. Focusing on one little day seems silly in light of the great future you have ahead of you!

Answer 11

I didn't like the planning part. But that day was perfect. I would like to go back again and relive everything that happend all over again and this time eat more food, dance more, and not worry so much about everyone else.

Answer 12

Our wedding was fabulous.  We had 130 guests, church wedding, sit down meal reception on a Saturday evening.  Everything went off with no problems at all.  

However, 18 years later, would I do it again?  The marriage, definitely, the wedding, NO.  Looking back, I would have rather taken the $$ that our parents paid for the wedding and had a downpayment for a house plus a smaller wedding (DH, I and maybe our parents with a JP).  It sure would have been a whole lot less stressful.