Would you dump him if you were me?

Question

My boyfriend always puts his friends first, and they don't even talk to me. He flirts with other girls when I'm around, everytime he says "lets meet at 3" he comes at 3:30, he asked me if i would sleep with him after 2 weeks and today he received a text message from his ex who is now his um.. FRIEND saying "hey s**y wanna have fun?"

Then he said he wants to go to a party and that he acts crazy when he gets drunk .. I said "you could do whatever u want" and his reaction was "Really?" (with a biiiiiig smile on his face). I said "sure.. and the next day i will just go find another boyfriend" and he left me there..

Answer 1

Dump him.

Answer 2

aww put yourself in his shoes. it really must be hard to be a selfish, ego driven, immature jerk. poor guy

yes dump him!!

asap

find someone more worthy of your time honey

Answer 3

DEFINITLY dump him.

Answer 4

Let him go get gonerreah and you go get a man that will respct you and treat you like you should be treated.. there are many people in this world.. find one that will make you happy.. and be happy ;-)

Answer 5

You deserve better get rid of him.

Answer 6

You follow your heart.  This guy seems like a very immature insensitive jerk.  I am sure there is someone out there who would be more considerate of your feelings and make you feel important to him.

Tell the jerk how he makes you feel and that you deserve better treatment and you will not settle for less and that you want to move on.

On second thought, don't tell him anything at all.  He doesn't deserve consideration or politeness from you.  Just make yourself "unavailable" to him.  Find something else to do and do not see him again.  Next, go on a hunt for real man and not some joker who is only out to score and hurt the feelings of women.  DUMP HIM!!

Answer 7

Yea he doesnt like you and u should break up with him. Us guys sometimes dont know how to break up so we start doin things to make u not like us anymore. Dont take it hard, he obviouslyneeds a way to break up with you. Just dump him

Answer 8

I would he treats you like c**p!!

Return the favor?

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Answer 9

WAT U WAITING FOR?!?!1 HE'S OT WORTH IT!1 THERE'S A BILLION OTHER GUYS OUT!!

BREAK UP WITH HIM!!

ALL  HE WANTS IS TO HAVE s*x WITH AS MANY GIRLS!!

HE'S A MANWHORE!!

JUST LEAVE HIM..

HE WILL BE COMING TO U CRYING LATER ON..

WATCH..

BUT.. HE'S NOT WORTH IT

Answer 10

babe sounds to me like he's

not even good enough for you

my advice: find someone who

is, there are many many more

guys out there.

Answer 11

h**l yes hes horrible girl find your self a better on gosh dump the chum.

Answer 12

sounds like you already did sweetheart...

but, yes, I sure agree, but all I suggest is to use your good judgment.

Answer 13

oh h**l yea- what a waste of time... no man ( or woman) is worth that. to be in a relationship, u need to have a connection and to me it looks like hes connecting with everyone else.

Answer 14

DUMP HIM.  OMG DUMP HIM.  I dated a guy just like this and he was such a loser.  Needless to say, he cheated on me quite a few times.  He's not worth your time.  Yikes.. Get rid of him and move on.  He's already moved on and you're still dating!

Answer 15

Tell him to meet me in a dark alley somewhere tomorrow night.  He'll be the perfect bf from then on, I promise.

Answer 16

DUH!

Dump his ***!

if he is saying he wants to get drunk...helllooo big red flag!!! and you allowing him to and him saying really basically gave him permission to do WATEVER he wants!

and the fact that his ex is said that to him?? uhh her intentions aree...??

DUMP HIM!

Answer 17

in my opinion there is one of two things going on.

1. the guy is a womanizer and just wants what he wants when he wants.

2. he wants it to be over but doesn't want the reputation of dumping a girl cause she wont have s*x with him. so being a complete jerk and waiting for you to dump him is easier.

if you think you want to break up with him do it. there's no point of a one sided relationship.

Answer 18

Hes probably joking for about half of that...but yeah use your common sense, if this is even real dump him, i doubt it though

Answer 19

you should dump his a$$! he is'nt treating you right and you deserve wayyy better! he's just trying to getting some and is acting like a manwhore, dump him and forget his sorry a$$

Answer 20

Immediately

DFF

Answer 21

Honey, those kind of men are called users who want you for what you can give them and not who you are. Don't bring your standards down for men like him. He doesn't care about you as much as you care about him

Answer 22

Sweetie, there are so many different guys in he sea .... yeah, dump him.  He is a biiiiig loser.  Let him be with his FRIEND, they appear to deserve one another.

Don't compromise on your dignity, nor your self esteem.  You deserve so much better!  Good luck!

Answer 23

definitely YES you can find other boy who will love you and not cheat on you all because you dont want to sleep with. in my opinion if he really likes you he would do anything to spent time not be late.

my answer:YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS  

Answer 24

omg hes a jerk i would totaly dump him! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 25

Sounds like you two are already not together to me.

Answer 26

I'd turn around and walk away from him and his antics at a marathon pace.  Without ever looking back.  What on earth makes you think you deserve his lack of consideration and horrible behavior.  Keep looking elsewhere Sweetie; this guy is not 'the one' and you deserve much better.

Answer 27

And you like him because why????? Sounds like a real catch, NOT! Throw him back in the sea and thank yourself for only wasting 2 weeks with him, if not you'll probably end up with an std, cause he definately sounds promiscuous.

Answer 28

Dump him now and don't look back. He's disrespecting you and your better than that.

Answer 29

I'm a dude, but in your shoes I'd dump him.  He's being an ***, and giving us good guys a bad name.

Answer 30

well he never said any thing. it was his ex. Hard decision. Talk to him bout it.

Answer 31

Don't waste anymore valuable time on this guy. He obviously doesn't respect you and he is very immature. Let him GO.