Would you ever go out with someone and just pretend to love them to lead them on? Or is that too cruel?

Question

Would you ever go out with someone and just pretend to love them to lead them on? Or is that too cruel?

Answer 1

i think its really cruel it could cause the girl to go crazy and eat a ton of food or ever commit sucide

yes there is some girls like that out there

Answer 2

It IS cruel but sometimes we DO do this subconsciously. that's y we need relationship advice. Please don't hurt anyone like that, put ur self in their shoes.

Answer 3

Ill have to be honest..i did it for s*x before...d**n YOU HEAD, whats wrong with you?

Good thing that retarded head doesnt control my every move anymore

Answer 4

I've done it for s*x before. I was done with them and I just wanted out. She was a lying, cheating w***e.

Here come the thumbs down!

Answer 5

it depends.

Answer 6

why would i even do that in the first place?

that doesnt make sense

Answer 7

thats cruel and mean

and pointless forreal!

Answer 8

That's weird why would anyone do that?  No is my answer.  I wouldn't be with someone I didn't want just for the fun of it.  I can't see that being fun it sounds boring.  It wouldn't be cruel for them it would be cruel for me.

Answer 9

that would be very painful because if they fall in love with you it wont only hurt her it would hurt you too

Answer 10

i would never go out with someone and just pretend to love them.

If you have told them you love them, then that is terrible.

You should fix the situation as soon as possible, cause the longer it goes on it just gets worse.

Answer 11

it is very cruel.. however i can admit that i've dated someone just because i felt sorry for them.  the ironic thing is that after "putting up" with this person because i felt sorry for him, i ended up falling in love with him in the long run.  we were together for 2 and a half years!  now PURPOSELY leading someone on.. that's not very nice.  

Answer 12

its cruel.

Answer 13

PURE EVIL!!!!!!!

Answer 14

Very cruel. Emotional scars take an extremely long time to heal, if they do heal that is.  

Answer 15

I've done that in the past but it was only to be polite, not to lead them on. Later I didn't follow up with anything though. I would think it's cruel to do it on purpose. I would hate that type of person and think some of the worst Karma possible would come to them.

Answer 16

Cruel to them.

A waste of time to you.  And isn't your time more precious that that... why waste time with someone you're not really into?

Answer 17

no thats cruel and why would anyone want to waste their time doing that when they could be with someone they love for real?

Answer 18

thats cruel i know many guys who do that im 12 btw lol I dont look like it in my pic do I?

Answer 19

That is cruel and mean.

Answer 20

yea ive done it b4 he told me he luvs me so i said i luv u 2 boo. a week l8r i broke up with him

Answer 21

I think that's cruel and what would be the point?

Harriet

Answer 22

Uhh yeah I'd say that's pretty cruel. Would you like for someone to pretend to love you then find out they really don't and were just leading you on?

Answer 23

Why would i need to? girls are too busy doing it to me-- i haven't found the time.

Answer 24

thats cruel don't mess with someones heart like that.

Answer 25

I would never do that, it's cruel. I've had it  done to me and it hurt me really bad.

Answer 26

thanks for answering my question! Lol your screen name is hilarious btw.

Well when i was 14 i went out with a boy for 2 months and told him i loved him just to make my this other boy jealous who was his bestfriend lol

Answer 27

no that is really cruel on the other person.

your getting there hopes up and you never meant it.

its really unfair. just imagine how you would feel if that happened to you and you found out?

it would hurt!

Answer 28

Of couse no, that is not nice.

Answer 29

nooooooooo i do that all the time but i just say lets just act like a relationship cuz i honestly hate reltionships and i dont just do it to one guy you have to have lik 3  

Answer 30

No definitely not, Some people don't have to pretend anything, they have plenty of dates and love without it. That is way to cruel and a total waste of my time and energy. I live by the Golden Rule in all aspects of my life so .... enough said. I can lay my head down at night.