Would you ever vanish all of a sudden from someone's life?

Question

If you break up with someone? Just don't tell them, no phone calls ect just vanish and what is your starsign?

Answer 1

I've done pretty much like this on my second relationship. I felt that I was taken for granted and that the  'spark' is slowly dissolving. I broke up with him by 'vanishing in his life'. I just sent him a text  saying I don't really want to be in the relationship anymore  and that I'm breaking up with him. Afterwards, I cut  off the communication between us and nothing was heard from  me. I know, this is not good but I don't have the guts to tell it directly,  I might 'give in'. We still got back together after that until we mutually decided to call it off. Seems like I just have too much pride for myself.

Libra

Answer 2

Yes many of times. Capricorn

Answer 3

I'm not gonna lie, I ended doing that to one of my ex gf after she gave me my birthday present. I didn't know how else to break it to her, talking to her was like talking to a Brick wall there was no real chemistry and because of that I ended up seeing someone else in whom I felt more of a connection with.

it's a very long story but 6years later I realized I still have the birthday shirt that she gave me so then I searched for her and made amends with her... and YES she Forgave me :)

Oh and I'm a Gemini, I have my reasons for what I did, I just thought it would be easier not just for me but for her too by leaving things just like that.

Answer 4

Yes, I have done that many of times and never felt guilty about doing it.  

Im an Aries

Answer 5

No, but I have had that happen to me on several occassions, and it doesn't feel good at all.  It is heartless.

Venus in Capricorn

Answer 6

I am Aquarius and dated an Aries once who did that to me. It hurt me so badly, because we hadn't fought or anything. Just poof!  He was done.

I wish I could do that to a Taurus whom I love. It would be so much better.  I am doing my best to never have contact with him again. He tries to reel me back in, as he does to every woman who has ever dated him, but he cheats something terrible and doesn't care that he is chipping away at your heart.  I wish I could move to Seattle. I just don't want to be accessible to him or tempted any longer.  My heart hurts.

Answer 7

I think that it depends on the circumstance. If I were to break up with my husband I couldn't just vanish, I have a 5 year old with him. Therefore, in a way we are tied together for life (atleast communication wise). However, if I wasn't married and didn't have a child. I'm sure if I couldn't talk to him I would just go. First, I would make the effort to try to talk to him about what was going on. If he refused to listen then maybe I would vanish. You are the only one who can take care of you. If you aren't happy then you need to find that happiness. Good luck to you.

Sign: Virgo

Answer 8

No... I would always try to make some sort of a finalization... though I wish I could just vanish sometimes...

Capricorn is my sun sign

Answer 9

oh no, they would most certainly know if it was over between us. i don't like to leave things that unresolved... i think it's only fair to tell the person you were with that you no longer feel the  same way.  a part of being mature in relationships is communicating problems when you have them.. i know it'd drive me insane to not know, and i've always kept the mentality 'do onto others as you would like done onto you.'

Answer 10

I have done that many times and it is even sang in anger as a joke to a few (i even moved to another country for three months and anger and hurt is what i faced during and when i came back from others especially my beloved gemini). But currently as of now, I yet again am currently vanishing  again away from beloved gemini for a while. If you knew the story you had understand why. All i can say is the situation is complicated, confusing and it feels like i am going around in a circle whereas there is no result being displayed, which is making me mentally and emotionally not okay. Further more I feel like i am not being realised, valued, appreciated and treated worthy taking into account how much i try so much to ensure that he is happy and much more. The most painful thing is that i am currently in love with him (this ain't no simply meaningless love..its deep). Awww so much complication in my life at the moment.

But it is like my beloved is making it hard for me, yet it seems he does not fully know what he wants and I do not want to go back into a situation whereas he is unable to see whilst i am there..as it seems the more I am there the more he takes for granted and does not appreciate. In his head he thinks he can treat me anyway because i come around, i forgive and will understand..which it is not bad, but if someone is taking something for granted and taking the p**s then it becomes a bad thing. Well currently me fading slowly is resulting in him trying to prevent it...as it seems he pushes his cancer sign friend i get along with to keep on calling me and trust me the conversation is a dead end not much of a purpose telephone call. His friend keeps calling me, asking me what i am doing and questioning my movements in terms of where i am..then the conversation ends. This call has been happening throughout this week and arghhhhh it makes me scream because mr. gemini thinks he is so clever (well he is -lol) getting his cancer friend to call me and have a conversation. If he does not realize it his friend is not doing a good job in covering up his tracks because the conversation seriously has no purpose and makes it so bait he investigating and trying to get an idea what i am doing. I think what makes it even worse on my beloved's (mr. gemini) part is that my sag friend said to him in a text i later found out she sent to him was -"I am going to make sure i do a good job in ensuring that D (which is me) gets over you for good and moves on."

Mr gemini calls me days later shouting upset on the phone saying "No it has nothing do with her (my sag friend..whom i later found out text without my knowing and found out what she said), it's me and you only..and she should get out of my life...it's me and you." But i am thinking in my head he don't know what he wants because i sure don't know if it is me...but arghhhhhhh.

Currently i am giving him no attention in regards to communicating with him. Usually i would and i think that is pissing him off because before i constantly always try with him and now i am not acting. Since i have changed my approach i think fear, confusion, and anger is getting to him..i feel sorry for pressure i sense he is giving his friend because i can sense mr gemini has put him up to it.

But no i am standing my ground, he has to know what he wants..no more games.

My sun sign is in Sag ;-P

My moon sign is in Leo

My mercury sign is in Sag

My venus is in capricorn

My mars is in scorpio

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Answer 11

I've done it, but it was a long-distance relationship: I just changed my phone number and instant messaging IDs.  And, I'm Capricorn.

Answer 12

I'm a Capricorn and I have done that, for about a whole year, maybe two I disappeared from my ex's life and when I finally worked up the courage to unblock him from my contacts, hoping that he would have moved on it turned out he hadn't and he was actually waiting for me. Disappearing isn't a good plan, I guess. (Then for the longest time he was, and well, still is depressed all the time and I guess that's all my fault for not coming out and telling him that I just didn't like him anymore)

Answer 13

Ya I might depending on the circumstances - I  am a Libra

Answer 14

No, I would never just vanish. But I may give a b.s. excuse and then change my number.

-Scorpio

Answer 15

Yes! In fact, I never even reveal my identity or real name to anyone, I just give them my nick, I never reveal my address or ANYTHING ELSE! Because it can be used against you in the future if they turn their backs. If someone even asks me my friend's names I will not say a thing about my friends since it isn't their business. I won't even be seen with anyone but myself to keep their identities safe

SUN SIGN: Scorpio

Answer 16

Dear friend,

No, if I love someone, I love the person with a sense of possesiveness and sincerety. Even if there are certain reasons, where cavity in relation take place may be on account of some misunderstanding or may be on factual instances, I would like to talk to person and give him/her a chance to explain his/her position. There may be less frequency of phone calls, but I will never just vanish out of someone's life. My star sign is - Cancer.

Answer 17

oh trust me i would - it makes a lot of sense to me

sun sign: Capricorn♥

Answer 18

I've done it before. Although I give them a warning first... you know, like "I'm going to go; I won't give you a reason, I just have to go. Don't call, don't try to look for me"

Hey, it beats having to say I just want my freedom and I feel they are taking it from me. Same goes for friends.

Scorpio sun, Sagittarius moon, Gemini rising.

Answer 19

I've wished to do it many many times... but in the end, I just don't have the heart.  I imagine myself moving somewhere completely random, start my life over, clean slate and leave everyone in my past behind me without any contact.  Too bad it's not that easy, huh?  And I'm a leo.

Answer 20

I have done it before to two people...Both had feelings for me, and tried to come on too strong, too quickly. I let myself spend too much time with them hoping that they would view us as friends, but eventually they began coming on too strong, and I couldn't handle it. I wanted to talk about it, but they would never bring it up, and kept pretending that we were just "hanging out". Eventually, I just kept making excuses not to see them, and whenever they'd call, I ignore it. It's been years now, and there is still one that pursues me....I feel a bit guilty, and would hate it if someone did the same thing to me, but I was never that close to them, and figure that they should move on.

Now, had I been in a serious relationship, I would never do this. Mainly because I do not love easily, and find it hard to get close to people. When I do finally find a person that I am emotionally connected with, it is a bond that will last forever, no questions asked. I would never abandon them out of the blue, I would stick by their side until the end. I know this, because I have been in love once before, and I will always care about this person, regardless of what we have been through.

Libra

Answer 21

I am a Leo, and I recently had someone vanish from my life... No I could not, and would not do it to another.