Would you forgive a guy that you caught cheating over the internet? and could you trust him after the fact?

Question

okay i'm in love with my boyfriend j..w'eve been together for just over a year, i thought the whole time up until last feb..about..that we were a perfect couple and that i could trust him with my world..until i found out just after christmas that he was chatting, web camming and even going on dating sites!!!!..he was talking to random females on his msn..and watching..he says he was just "watching"..but u know??!!! so i caught him and busted him!!:P..well i thought that it would stop..but un fortunatly i caught him AGAIN..now i don't know if guys just think were stupid??..and we don't know how to check a guys comp for things..i have NO idea:P..but i know i really love this man..and we just got back together after being apart for a month..i don't know..ladies??..gents?? what do you think..should i trust him and stay or what should i do??:(

Answer 1

to tell you the truth NEVER!!!!

Answer 2

NOPE. cheating is cheating is cheating...emotional, physical, online or in person. You may be ok with forgiving it - but if I caught my boyfriend doing that we'd have SERIOUS problems. not only would I not be able to trust him - but any kind of cheating is grounds for breaking up.

Answer 3

I'm in a two year relationship and am very happy. But i must admit i am also on eharmony...why? not sure...i love my boyfriend very much and lately I've been thinking marriage. So its not that i want to cheat or that i'm not happy it's just that since i'm thinking about taking the next step. I just want the reassurance that i'm doing the right thing. double checking...if my boyfriend were to find out i would feel horrible and ask him to forgive me. I would not do it again!

dont know the reason your boyfriend is doing it. I would give him another chance after all you love him. But tell him you're serious this time and that if you find out one more time that he's on dating sites it's over.  

Answer 4

Cheating is a very very terrible thing. Not only did he do it once but more then that after? Apparently he makes the saying true, "once a cheater alaways a cheater"

I can't tell you to not be with him cause love is aboubsly love.

I can tell you that I don't think you should trust him and you need to lay down the law and tell him what needs to be fixed.

I wish you luck!

-Natalie

Answer 5

I don't think anyone on here is going to say to stay with him, unless it's a dirty guy. You deserve more than that and even though they are hard to find, there is someone out there who will treat you like the princess you are.

Apparently he doesn't love you like you'd hope and I can't see him changing anytime soon. Worst of all he doesn't respect you. Now what kind of life do you think the two of you will have.........(think about it.........)

See, not really a good one right?

Answer 6

I want to say cheating is cheating and dump his sorry ace but i was in the same situation and the guy is now my husband i caught him twice  before we were married  then nothing  for about two years and then i caught him only about a few monthes ago. He promises never again and he knows if he gets caught again its the end of our marriage. in my case i feel it was harmless , i love my husband very much and i know him very well i believe that he loves me too follow what you really feel. if you are really hurt and cant get past it then your relationship might not last anyway . He may be telling the truth . You never know i could be niave but  i always follow my gut!