a.) they only talk to you unless you intiate the conversation- so you say hi first
b.) they keep to themself and keep themselves entertained in their room or with other friends
c.) they spend a good amount of time alone- writing, drawing, painting, sewing, etc-
i lived on a college campus for like 3 years and kept to myself- and spoke when spoken to- if not i won't speak- i used to speak all the time prior- and i just felt like it wasn't up to me to speak to my roommates or the girls living on the hall-
a rumor spread i was mean- rude- depressed- because i didnt speak or hang out with them-
i personally feel i owe no one anything and i open up when i want to-
but to have people giving me the evil eye and spreading outlandish gossip and rumors because i keep to myself- is just sad!
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