Would you get turned on if.....

Question

im sixteen and am a virgin but me and my bf are thinking about having s*x. do you think he would think its hot if i took him lingeri shopping with me and let him pick out what he likes best?? or should it be a surprise??

Answer 1

u should take him with u. i mean its not only your moment........right?

Answer 2

Syd, you just think you're ready for all of this.  I applaud you for taking precautions and trying to be responsible, but nothing is foolproof.  Are you really prepared to be a parent?  Is he?  Please reconsider the path you're own.  You really are just starting out and have so much of your life ahead of you.

I'm not being condescending or patronizing, I have a daughter that was just like you.  She wound up pregnant and married.  Now she's divorced and living back at home.  And she's 21 with a 3 year old.   Please enjoy being a kid and wait on this other stuff for a few years.  You have plenty of time.

Answer 3

All guys are different, you'd have to see what he likes. If you've been with him long enough to have s*x with him, you should know him well enough to know if he would react to something well. With my boyfriend, what ever I wear is always a surprise - but it always comes off anyway. It wouldn't matter much to him if he's taking off your jeans, or lingerie. But, he may be into certain different things. Like I said, you'd have to see with him.

Answer 4

I'm seventeen and a male and not a virgin I would so rather have my gf suprise me with that then have me go shopping for it because it feels awkward for alot of guys to go in their not me personally but alot of guys it is and having your bf say oooooooooooooooooooo in the store isn't as great as having him say oooooooooooooooooooooo right before s*x

Answer 5

I think that you don't need s**y lingerie to have s*x. If you love him and he loves you, it should be special to both of yous. Just let it come naturally, just let one thing lead to another and please make sure you are both ready for s*x.

Answer 6

suprices are always better and when only one plans it out it will be better ... because things plan out by two are boring well hope it helps lol  

Answer 7

Nurse Batty said:　

". Naked can be s**y too ya know........."

Are you stupid, miss Nurse? Naked is s**y? Since when? Naked is biggest turn off ever! But Fancy panties are not so hot ether.

"But since you are just a child I would advise against s*x"

Lame! Ppl can decide for themselves! Your advice is nothing but a pile of c**p! Guys are 16! They will **** no matter what are you mumbling over there!

And my opinion: don't think about a ****! If your boy is not gey every thing about you is a biggest turn on for him! !! Thinking about different **** during s*x will only prevent you from having o****m. Using condoms is a good idea though....  

Answer 8

suprise.

black, lacy bra.

and edible panites...=D

hahahahaha.

kidding.

not about the lacy bra though.

that sounds great.

Answer 9

I'm not even aloud to have a boyfriend at that age.

Answer 10

Fancy panties are just a waist of money because you will just take em off anyway. Naked can be s**y too ya know.........

But since you are just a child I would advise against s*x or next time we hear form you it will be one of those " do you think I'm pregnant" questions. Use your head huh and think about this.............

Answer 11

Surprise him!!

Answer 12

You're too young!  

Answer 13

you should do something you both agree too, it probably wouldnt be a good idea to surprise him the first time, he might be nervous too

Answer 14

i think it would be hard for him to go shopping for those items, they really aren't needed

Answer 15

wow!! YOUR TOO YOUNG FOR THAT DONT BE A S***

Answer 16

Why not have your Mom, or better yet your Dad go with you to pick something out, that way your b/f  can get two surprises for the price of one!

Answer 17

Shouldn't you wait?