Would you girls be mad if?

Question

A guy was visting a place and decided that its easier to sleep with a girl if she thinks their will be a long term relationship. And then you start dating him and move out of your boyfriends and arrange your life around an expected long term relationship and then one day he sends you a text message telling you hes leaving the country and may never come back.

Answer 1

So let me get this straight. He kept his true intentions for our relationship to himself; he used me for s*x; and that he TEXTED me about his leaving the country? How would I be able to think of him as anything but an a__wipe?

Answer 2

How a man behaving that way would feel about himself? That is the question. The woman eventually will find someone honest, but the jerk has to live with himself forever.

Answer 3

mad! no ...i wouldnt go crazy for such a person

Answer 4

Anybody would be mad if that happened to them, male or female.

For the record, I think it is totally fine if a guy runs a little game and uses general salesmanship to hook up for a one night stand. People, male or female, who are participating in a one-night-stand are just looking for a little illicit fun, and any stories they tell each other to get to that point are just part of the game. But anybody who leads on another person over time, day after day, deliberately setting them up for a crash is a soulless person.

Answer 5

Gee... what do YOU think? Is that treating your partner with respect?

Answer 6

you THINK?

Answer 7

It seems like both the man and the woman in this question are untrustworthy.  The man was dishonest about his intentions, and the woman was dating him while living with her boyfriend....sounds like a match made in heaven if you ask me.

Answer 8

Good Lord.

Answer 9

Be mad? He'd find himself well and truly revenged....I have ways.....

Answer 10

Yeah, but it would serve her right for cheating.

Answer 11

That would be an awful thing to do to somebody!!  If the guy just wanted s*x why didn't he go and find some **** who didn't want a relationship or pay someone for thier services..

Luring a girl into a relationship just to get s*x then leaving her is cruel, and while the guy might move on and think nothing of it, there almost no doubt that the girl will be devastated and spend weeks, maybe even months wondering what she did wrong.

I don't know why anyone would play with someones emotions like that.  All I can say is what comes around goes around, and sooner or later that guy will get a taste of his own medicine.

Answer 12

they are both dic*s!

he's lieing to her to get in her pants and she's cheated on her bf.

Answer 13

I wouldn't leave my boy friend in the first place; already been there.