Would you go to your cousins wedding if?

Question

A few years back at my grandpas funeral my cousin walked up to my dad and said to him, that he has no respect for my dad and does not like him. he just came out of no where. then that is all he did was brag about his job and how much money he makes and what kind of car he drives to me. I dont care! never did, he is so materialistic. any way it is a few years later and he is inviting me and my family to his wedding. should we go? would you?

Answer 1

a wedding invitation is not an obligation, even if it is from a family member. From what you said, he is probably just looking for another occasion to be an arrogant jerk. Wedding are a celebration for people getting married and the people who love them to join together and enjoy themselves. If you are not happy for him and not a regular part of his life, there is no reason for you to attend.

Answer 2

Go to the wedding. Smile and be nice. You will only have once chance to attend the wedding. Be nice and cut out as soon as possible. I would guess that your Dad is probably very successful and the cousin is jealous.

Answer 3

No, I would not go. He disrespected your father, and your grandfathers funeral. That is something you cannot undo. I'm surprised your even thinking of going! Just respectfully reply that you and your family cannot attend. You don't need to give a reason. The night of his wedding, you and your family go out for a nice supper and not think about it. I definitely would not go to the wedding,  

Answer 4

Nope! Not a chance. I wouldn't even bother sending a card!

Answer 5

if you are not close to him why would you want to go attend a special moment that means nothing to you.

Answer 6

If he is so rude to be so disrespectful to your father, then I don't know why you would want to attend his wedding. He is so full of himself that he can't see that his elders have much value. I wouldn't bother with someone with his attitude if I were you.  

Answer 7

Not a chance.  What a jerk, send a negative RSVP and be done with him.

Answer 8

If he hasn't changed or at least apologize , than no I would kindly decline his invitation.

Answer 9

I would go to show you are the bigger person. Besides, he might be completely and utterly shocked when you and your family walk in because he probably isn't expecting you guys to show up. But if he doesn't like your dad, why is he inviting him? That strikes me as odd. If I was you, I'd go because like I said, it shows you are the bigger and better person. If you don't, that would be your personal choice but if I was you, heck yeah, I'd attend!

Answer 10

If you feel this way, then quietly decline the invitation.  You don't need to give a reason.

Send a congratulatory card in order to keep peace with other family members.

Then relax.  It is okay to decline an invitation, whatever your personal reason may be.

Answer 11

The question is.....do you want to be the bigger person, the better person?? If the answer is yes, then you should go.

Answer 12

DON'T GO .. the guy disrespected u .. i bet he just invited u to look like the nice one infront of ppl .. if u go im sure he will start saying stupid stuff about u .. and that u guys like him tho he hates u all .. DON'T GO !!!!!

Answer 13

I am kind of on the other side of this. I have not talked to My sister in over six years. I am getting married in Jan and I was trying to figure out if I should invite her or not. I thought about it and figure one I wanted to the bigger person. I don't want ten years to pass, have made up with her and be upset that I did not invite her.  It is your decision to make, but I would put some time into thinking about before making it,