Would you hate me too?

Question

im getting married on friday but everyone on his side seems to hate me. Family and friends. Because I ****** up in everything.

* different race/culture/religion

* I have a son at a young age, which I thought its better to face the consequences of my action than to run away and have abortion.

* I came in the united states and got married which the only regret i have for living almost 22 yrs now in this world. got divorced

* Im working my *** to help out my family back in my country, which things turn upside down, from having everything(house,own business,cars,maids,drivers) to nothing. One of the reason why I came here to the states to help them out for awhile.

* didnt finish college(on my 2nd yr of nursing)

* And im crazy inlove.

so his family and friends doesnt like me because most of the problems in the world i have it right now.

if your bro/sis/family member/friends have a fiance with the same drama i have would you let them marry that person?

Plus the fact that my fiance keeps saying me that he will never be happy because his family hates me and i hate them, which isnt true. I dont hate his family. I even wanted to be close to them but its so hard.

If only I can sell my soul to anyone in return of his family,friends to like me so I can make my fiance happy. Hearing from him saying he will never be happy because of me hurts me. so much.

Answer 1

I actually think you are a responsible person.  I also think that you are a better person for having your child and caring for him instead of taking the easy way out by having an abortion.  You are here helping your family, which is very generous of you as well.

Even if I didn't like the person that a family member was getting married to, I'd still support their relationship if it makes him happy.  You've been through alot, but you've also made many right decisions for the things life has thrown at you.

If he's not happy, then let him know that you don't want to marry him until he knows for sure that this is what he wants.  If either one of you don't think you will be happy in this relationship, then it will most likely end up in divorce.  Tell him how you feel and then ask him what he thinks.