Would you hate your family if they were like this to you?

Question

I have a mom and dad. One brother and one sister

Dad cares about nothing but his guns and his favorite, my sister.

Mom thinks the world owes her and if you rock the boat she guilt trips you like there is no tomorrow until you do what she wants.

Brother was physically and emotionally abusive when we were kids and hit me in the face with a two-by-four and parents did nothing.

Sister thinks I should l**k the ground clean before she walks on it and picks on me emotionally, physically and mentally and parents again never did anything about it she still does it to this day.

I am 20, she is 21 and brother is 25. I do not talk to my sister ever but my parents are trying to force me and her to get along. I hardly talk to my brother and I stopped be around my parents and have been concentrating on my husband and my own family. I am the d**n black sheep.

Would you hate your family if they were like this? what would you do?

Answer 1

well d**n girl if it truly was that bad then that really is unacceptable. if they were good times u might consider working things out. ur 20 so im sure u had or should have had a lot of time to tell ur family how u feel but if u havent all i can say to u is ur grown and sad as it is maybe u need to branch off and live ur life. if it was me then i would go to college.. possibly one where u can move in.get a job.. idk just do my own thing and when the time is right and if im succesful start my own family... good luck!

Answer 2

You might do well to concentrate on your husband and children; but spending your energy on hatred tells me that you have been affected in an unhealthy way.  

If these people are a destructive force in your life, by all means avoid them.  Just make sure you are not passing bad habits down to the next generation.

Answer 3

I would never say to "hate" your family. You're married with your own life. You and your family obviously disagree and they're obviously treated you badly. Since you're married (and I assume live separate from your folks) ignore them. "Pass and repass" so to speak, send cards or presents for occasions and try not to get too involved with their bickering. Never hate your family.

Answer 4

Don't hate your family. But, you can certainly avoid them except on Holidays. You should make an effort to keep in touch with them and make sure they are okay, but that doesn't mean you have to visit them a lot or any thing. Sorry your family treats you like that.

Answer 5

Avoid your family except on special occassions.  Have your husband you up when you confront you family members.

You should be able to live your life without harrassment from family members.