Would you have a harder time finding someone to marry if you cant have kids?

Question

Would you have a harder time finding someone to marry if you cant have kids?

Answer 1

I doubt it. My husband talked about it before marriage because he thought he was infertile, it was not doctor diagnosed, but he was certain because of family history and his own past, but as it turned out he was wrong when two months after the wedding I got pregnant. But I would have married him anyway, we could always adopt.

Answer 2

I don't think so, you just need to be really honest from the get-go, either by finding men who don't want children, already have children and don't want any more, or who would be okay with a surrogate or adoption.  The right man for you would be open to discussing your health problem and do anything it takes to be with you.  

Answer 3

No, you could adopt. If he is holding it against you, he doesn't really love you anyway, b/c a kid is a kid.  

Answer 4

I don't think so.  There is always adoption.  What matters is that you love each other.

Answer 5

i don't have kids, but i'm sure some might want to marry you regardless. as a parent you need to be more picky and i'm sure you are thinking of a lot more factors than someone with kids.

Answer 6

No. Because I don't want kids!

Answer 7

yes i think so

Answer 8

No, you just need to be really honest from the start about it.

And, really, any guy that doesn't love you enough to stick with you through that and try to adopt a family with you, doesn't really deserve you, does he?

Answer 9

It would depend on the person.  Some people don't want children anyway.  If you want children, you could marry someone who has children from a previous relationship, or you could adopt.  My older sister tried, but cannot have children.  Her husband is very supportive and understanding--and he has a daughter from his first marriage.  I asked him once if they would consider adoption, but he said no--she wanted either her own biological child or nothing.  That is her choice, and everyone respects it.