Would you have more kids if your spouse asked you to?

Question

i just had my fourth day 9 days ago

i am done besides im only 19. my wife however has no children of her own yes im a L*****n bisexual technically but i chose to marry a woman so i wouldnt get pregnant

well she cant have babies has no internal parts because of ovarian cancer and uterine cancer. she now wants me to have a baby for her with one of her frozen eggs

what do i do seriously

Answer 1

you have me confused ol but if my partner wanted more than the 2 we have and the one I'm expecting then no 3 will be enough financially i know we could not afford more and congratulations on your new arrival

Answer 2

I don't know. If you love her, and want to keep her, babies can be a deal breaker. If she really wants this, she will get it, one way or another.

But don't let her pressure you into it. I would wait and see how you feel in a couple of years.

Answer 3

i would wait a few years

Answer 4

I think you need to take a step back and start thinking for yourself as an adult.  You already have 4 kids and you're not even 20 yet.  You have plenty of time to think about another child even a couple years down the road.  If you're in a serious marriage, your spouse will understand.  Plus, it's not wise to start trying immediately after giving birth.  Take your time--you have lots of it!

Answer 5

sorry to answer your question with a question, but I am confused.

You are a woman and married to a woman but have 4 kids that are someone elses. AND your wife is asking you 9 days after you had your 4th baby to use one of her eggs to carry her baby?

That is a loaded question (If I understood it right.)

I agree with the other answer. You should wait a while and revisit this. you are quite young and can carry her child in years to come. Are you raising those 4 children with your wife?  

Answer 6

You seriously have four kids at 19 years old?  Wow.  How about waiting a few years and then asking this question again?  Having a baby for her would be very expensive.

Answer 7

Fourth day of what? If you are ready in a few years do it cus you love her not because she asked  

Answer 8

I agree with dolly,  

Its up to you but if you dont want no more kids then you have to be straight with your wife, plus if i had just given birth 9 days ago i couldnt even think about planning for another.

My daughter was 4months when i found out i was pregnant with my 2nd baby.

If you dont want no more kids then dont just have another because your wife wants you too.