Would you invite an ex who you were on good terms with to your wedding?

Question

Or should ex's just be put in the past?

Answer 1

No, that would p**s off ur spouse.

Answer 2

It depends. Are you still close friends with the ex? Does your fiance(e) like the ex and do the three of you *all* hang out together? Or is your fiance(e) jealous/paranoid around the ex and it would just make him/her upset to have the ex around?

It really just depends on the situation. I think that if you, your fiance(e), and your ex are ALL on good terms with each other, then you should broach the topic with your fiance(e) and then, if you gain approval, invite the ex. If, however, the three of you are awkward/irritable/upset when all in the same room together, then don't invite the ex.  

And just because your fiance(e) tolerates your friendship and doesn't act irritable/awkward/upset about it doesn't mean you shouldn't bring it up with him/her before sending the invite. The fiance(e) is really the one who should be determining the comfort level here -- and unless you are BEST FRIENDS with the ex, it is best not to push the fiance(e) too much on this point.

Answer 3

Only if neither of us felt anything anymore AND my fiance was fine with it. I would also only invite them if we were still friends that kept in contact. I would not invite someone who may still have feelings for me or if my fiance felt uncomfortable with having them there.

Answer 4

One of mine is coming to my wedding, he's actually an usher! I've been friends with him since I was in first grade so our 4 month relationship when I was 14 is a thing in the past!

Answer 5

Nope nope nope. That's very disrespectful to your partner. I would advise against this.

Answer 6

I did, with my husband's permission.  We (my ex, his wife, my husband and I) are friends and see each other socially.

Answer 7

No, absolutely not. You're starting a new life, so need to learn to let go.