Would you keep me around?

Question

Here are all my faults-

I am very demanding, Im controlling when you may be doing things that affect our relationship. I yell alot, I get angry quickly and it takes a long time for it to subside. I micromanage your time. I say really mean sht sometimes. im jelous and insecure.

Here are my good qualities-

I am fiercly loyal, I am extremely dedicated to the relationship and our family, I am ambitious, I am educated, im a good mother, I cook, clean, and am a rock star in bed. I shower you with love and stand by your side no matter what happens. I support you any way i can.

would you stay or would you go knowing all these things.

Answer 1

That would depend on whether I saw the good qualities more often than the faults...  

Answer 2

i would stay, i think everyone can get like your faults somethimes.



its ur qualities that make people like u

and ur faults that make people love you

(and before anyone says anything yes that is from a film, i just cant remember which one.)

Answer 3

I would not only stay, I would thrive!  Great qualities, and believe me I can give as good as I get!

Answer 4

I would go if I were a man.

There are MILLIONS upon MILLIONS of women who are loyal, cook, clean, are Rockstars in bed and every other d**n thing that aren't total B***HES to boot.

Just saying.....

Answer 5

I'm not a man but I would stay because If you are all the things you list at the bottom chances are something is making you do the things at the top. People can come across mean when they really are not when they are fighting for a good cause.

Answer 6

Who could pass up a Rockstar?

Answer 7

You need to put those faults in check before you get too old for it to be cute anymore.  You think old maids just happen?

Answer 8

Men hate controlling women. But I'm like that sometimes...and my boyfriend loves me so he gets mad but then forgives me.

So if the man really loves you, I'm sure he wouldn't mind. ;)

Answer 9

Sorry, if you want to fight by yourself. Call me when it's over. But don't do it too often.

Answer 10

Try to meditate.  It will help calm you quicker, and lengthen your fuse.

Do something to build confidence, that will help with any insecurities

micromanaging is a job skill, do you use it,

Start with Meditation

Answer 11

All of those faults become shadowed by all of those said qualities you have. I would keep you around for the fact that you are a good mother and are loyal. Those are traits that a lot of people in my opinion don't have.

Plus, you can always work on your faults.  

Answer 12

You know your flaws and must realize how unattractive a demanding, jealous and insecure woman must be. Flip the situation around, despite your qualities of being a good mother and good in bed (as you say ;P), would you want someone to control you, to bark orders at you like you're some child or scrutinize everything that you do and say? In a way, it's emotionally abusive for you to be this way and if your husband doesn't figure out he can find another woman who can cook, clean and rock his world in the bed (because there are many of us out there) and leave because of this, this could very well chase him away and into someone else's arms or bed. If you don't trust him, why are you with him? If he hasn't given you a reason to not trust him, then your husband/significant other should be the person you do put your trust in, as your partner. If he has given you reason, well you decided to stay so you need to work on your trust issues if you want the relationship to last.

You know your bad qualities, some people are blind to them, so work on them so you can not only be a good mother, but a good wife as well and let your spouse know you're trying to change for the better so maybe when he sees yuour improvements, he'll be encouraged to change, but you can't change anyone, only yourself.

Good luck.

Answer 13

Sorry, raising your voice at me and saying mean stuff would end it...

I don't like rude people.

I don't yell at my woman and I cannot be attracted  to a woman who talks to me like that...

Answer 14

The way you say it, as if there were only those two choices (to stay and put up with you as you are, or to go), makes me think I would go.  You don't seem to be showing any inclination to change these behaviors of yours.  There is the third option of staying, with both you and your husband working on these things, but if you're not even willing to consider changing your behavior, then I would say, go.

Answer 15

If you are a rock star in bed, I'd come by on ocaision for that, but demanding, controlling, angry chicks are difficult to hang around much after the s*x.

Answer 16

you just need to be more calm and be more secure of yourself and trust your partner and guys will love to keep you around with all these good qualities! just work on improving your bad habits ! good luck sweetie

Answer 17

i would go based on the faults

Answer 18

I would stay.  These qualities actually sound a lot like me.  Some people don't find these qualities not so ideal in a relationship which I have just recently learned.  Anyway, best of luck to you and me too.  Here is hoping that we find lasting love...

Answer 19

I would not stay with you.  I have been with someone (the good and bad) the same as you described yourself and I was miserable.  The bad are 'too bad' for me.  The good qualities just don't make up for the yelling, insecurity, micromanaging, and control.

Sorry....just being honest.

Answer 20

How can you say you shower someone with love when you Yell at them a lot? Or micromanage THEIR time? Or you are jealous and insecure about them?

Who gives a d**n how good you are in bed if you are constantly berating me or acting jealouss. Are you controlling my time in the bedroom as well?

How can you support someone if you are saying mean shat to them all the time?

In closing I will say this.....most of your good points are SUPPOSED  to be part of a relationship. You don't get points for doing what you are supposed to be doing.  

Answer 21

who in h**l wants a ***** all the time

h**l with rocking in bed there are other times and places your not in bed and no one wants to listen to someone ***** from daylight to dark

Answer 22

Faults are magnified, my dog is loyal & ambitous, any woman can be a rock star in bed, any calm woman will love me & support me. I would stay for the s*x, leave you for the faults,,,

Answer 23

id stick around. I take it your mexican these traits are typical in mexican women. Their attitudes are a display of their passion nad u cant beat thier cooking!

Answer 24

Not a chance in h**l. Every one of your faults are show stoppers. Your good qualities are not enough to keep you around. You must be young and I would suggest trying to get rid of all the bad traits or you will be a lonely woman .

Answer 25

I would keep you but only if you attended an anger management class. No matter how loyal you are you can destroy a persons self esteem with words. Showering with love should never include decreasing you to ashes because you're upset.  

Answer 26

Nope, your are selfish and immature. All the good you do would not be able to erase the hurt you cause.

Answer 27

I have zero tolerance for being yelled at and I hate being told what to do - nobody but me gets to micromanage my time (at least, not when I'm not at work).  Just based on that, I'd go, even if I was a guy (which I'm not).

Answer 28

well i wouldnt go out with some1 like dat becasue u would b insecure and allways accuse me of stuff jeoly i understand but deres a limit dnt like da whole demanding and abusive yelling behavior srry =)

Answer 29

Go.  

Answer 30

I would have to go. I am grown and do not need a mother looking over my shoulder.