Would you let this happen..?

Question

Okay so my dad told me that i could bring someone to Great Adventure with us a couple week ago.

He had originaly told me that i could take my ex who he didn't know was my ex at the time.

then he told me to invite someone else after i told him we broke up.

i invited one of my friends but i never got an answer from her and she won't be in touch until the day before we go.

So he told me to invite someone else.

I asked him if i could invite my current boyfriend and he told me to ask my grandmother, but it was alright with him.

I don't think my grandmom is going to say yes.

i don't see why she wouldn't

We are going to be with my dad ALL DAY he already told me i wasn't going to be aloud of by my self with my other friend who was a girl.

I'm not going to try anythng with my dad right there the whole time and i know he's not gonna pull anything.

Would you let me take my bf with me.

why/why not.

and they think he has a bad rep and is a sorta bad person because of something that is a completly different story but its not true he's a really good person

Answer 1

why were you allowed to rbing your ex but not your current boyfriend?

Answer 2

i would let you take him.your dad is going to be with you the whole time...

Answer 3

I hate to tell you this but probably not. Think of it from your dad's point of view. He said you could bring someone and that certain someone kept getting changed and it is a one-day thing...one day out of 365 of them. He probably doesn't understand why it is a big deal and if your grandma is going with you as well then he doesn't want to get chewed out by her for letting you take a boyfriend when you are only 14. So- he's probably stuck between you and her on this one.

Answer 4

I would let my 14 year old take her boyfriend with her.  There would be exceptions to that answer but my daughter is trust worthy  and also, I would want her to have a memorable time.  At this age she is more focused on and enjoys things better with her friends but later will remember us in the back ground.  I would have a problem taking someone that has not been nice to a family member or that only shows up when we are paying the big bucks.  Have a good time!

Answer 5

well if your gramma isn't going, and your dad already said it was ok wirh him, what's the problem?  

Answer 6

I would let him go with you. I mean, your going to be with with your dad the whole time. What could happen?

Answer 7

I would let you take your boyfriend because it gives me the perfect opportunity to know him and if he makes you happy, then I'm happy.

Answer 8

Id let him go, I mean your going to be with your father all day.

Answer 9

honestly if he does not trust your ex boyfriend you don't want your Dad to give off negative vibes the whole time and make it unpleasant for you either. My Mom at my very own wedding said that she wouldn't go nor would she be happy if I invited my ex whom I dated when I was like 15 and I got married at 22! 7 years later!  And I thought that THAT was ridiculous. But also be lucky that your Dad is bringing you to Six Flags. I hear what you are saying but look at it from a parent's point of view on the ex, part.

But the current bf situation, i think you should be able to. But at the same time I would think you should have thought about him first before your ex.  I find that unappropriate really, that you are going with your ex when you should be with your bf now.  Trust me, it will come back and hit you...I have seen it many times. Jealousy is a dangerous trait.

Answer 10

Ok so I think this is what's going on- I don't think your dad wants you to have a boyfriend yet. I think they think you are too young AND if you are going to have a boyfriend they want the guy to have a good reputation and lots and lots of respect for them.

Your dad probably wants to spend some time with you and have some fun and if he doesn't like your boyfriend it might not be fun for your dad anymore. It might be nice to let him have a day with his little girl.

I do see your point though. It would be a lot of fun for you to hang with your boyfriend. If I were you I would tell your dad that this is a good opportunity for him to get to know your boyfriend and see the kind of person you see. He is far more likely to have respect for your dad and your dad's rules if he has hung out with the guy. Tell your grandmother the same thing.

Just one more thing- please be careful with the tough guys. Its really beautiful that you see the good in him and Im sure it means a lot to him. But please be careful and remember that no matter what he is responsible for being a good person no matter what he has gone through He should respect your feelings and your limits OK?

Have fun at the park no matter what and have some cotten candy and go on all the rollercoasters for me. :)