Would you let your husband sleep with your best friend

Question

If you had a total hyterectomy and wanted a baby ( had no kids yet). Your best friend volunteered to be an egg donor and carry the baby, would you let your husband have s*x with her to get her pregnant so you wouldn't have to pay all the med bills and trips to the clinics and invetro.??

Just curious???

Answer 1

NOOOO.

I'd rather adopt a baby.

Answer 2

ow h**l no!!!

Answer 3

Mmmmmmmmm....Prolly not.. Thats just kinda weird.. I bet he is all for it hugh? Adopt.. They give kids to anyone these days. I should know i was one of the kids they gave to "anyone"..

I guess if thats the only way to get a baby.. Is your friend trustworthy..for real?  

Answer 4

i would rather pay all of the bills so the baby would look like me.

Answer 5

No way.

Answer 6

are you f*cked in the head?!?!

Answer 7

I would never do that. I would just adopt or have some type of treatment somehow. I would NEVER allow that to happen.  

Answer 8

No.

Answer 9

nope I would just use something to squirt it up there a few times during ovulation... no s*x required and no medical bills to have it done....I don't see a reason to ever allow cheating.

Answer 10

no

Answer 11

uhh. . .

can u say threesome?  

Answer 12

No... what if she tried to keep the child? And if not, what would you tell the child? Or what if jealousy issues arose? Just doesn't sound like a good idea to me...

Answer 13

I would pay.

As it is it's compicated enough - her eggs and his sperm makes it "their" baby.

To have s*x adds an emotional bond.

Sometimes you DO have to have money to have happiness.

Answer 14

well if i were u...here is what i would do....make sure he gets tested first to make sure he is 100 percent clean....then have him jack off and *** into a condom ..immediately give it to ur sister and have her insert the s***n into her v****a...there u go...ur savin money...and this way he doesnt have to have s*x with her

Answer 15

h**l no!  You'll resent her and lose your best friend as well as your cheap husband who can either pay his half for the medical expenses and in vitro and you can pay the other half from a temp job or he can pay for your divorce and alimony.  I sure would not trust your girlfriend in this instance, find a smarter surrogate mother and keep the peace.

Answer 16

No.

Why would you ever let your husband have s*x with anyone but you?! I also find it odd how willing your best friend is to that. Be VERY careful and watchful.

Personally I say do it the hospital way. Also have you considered adoption? Watching for nine months, another woman carrying your baby might be hard. Also...she might want to keep the child..

Answer 17

There is no way, that is like asking for trouble.  

Answer 18

No way!  I would spend the money on the invetro.

Answer 19

Nope, over my dead body would I let that happen.

Answer 20

No, I would look into IVF which would not require him to have any sexual contact with another person. If I didn't want to spend the money on that, I would probably use something like a turkey baster to get the sperm into her.

Answer 21

your best friend can turn her back against you any minute - you know what i mean? she might volunteer right now, but she could claim the baby and not give it to you after giving birth to it. i'm not saying she's a ****** though, i'm just saying some people can't be trust this days - especially things like babies. Its a human being we're talking about. it's not just a practice baby doll that you let her have for a few months and then you can   have it for yourself.

like the rest of the people that have said: Adopt a baby instead. Not only you will be free of guilt but the adopted baby would be more happy to have someone who wants to take him or her home.

Also you will not "confuse" your child as to who really is him or hers mother - you or your best friend.

Answer 22

I realize she's your best friend, but since she is going to be carrying 'your' child for 9 months, she might get emotionally attached to the baby.  I would go through all the expenses.  Personally, I would feel wierd if my husband slept with someone else.  

Answer 23

No. And I doubt a self-respecting husband would do that to his wife either. It wouldn't even be your baby, it'd be theirs so what's the point? Please don't vote.  

Answer 24

i would spend the extra money

I'm the jealous type and it would haunt me,

but that's my opinion.

Answer 25

no i rather to get a puppy. kids are too much anyways

Answer 26

my answer would be no because that would most likley ruin the freindship for one my sister made the mistake of letting her husband have s*x with her  best freind and it makes her sick to her stomuch and she  cant look at ethier of them in the same way.my advice try other options first.....