Would you let your spouse travel with his bestfriend to a foreign country for fun?

Question

Men..would that be okay if you can offord it..would you allow your wife to go? would you let her be away for a week just for fun?

Women..would that annoy you? would you wanna go instead?

How would you feel if it was just a trip for fun and not work related..?

Answer 1

in my family , the wives go on trips for work or fun without their husbands without any problems .

the same applies to the husbands , of course .

we all have mutual trust , and find that a breather is needed  so as to grow fonder .

Answer 2

I would be sooooooo jealous lol. Why he wants to go with his best friend and not me? Haven't I deserve to have fun too?

baaaaas (but) if he really wants to go and I trust him (what I'll for sure) and his best friend is okay, then I would let him go.

But beside his fun, he'll get a loooooooooooot of telephone calls hehehehe... :D

Answer 3

Yes i will agree because i must give her a freedom as i trust her ,If Women need thing she will do it anyway infront or behind me so to go with her friends for vacation ITS NOT THE PROBLEM, It will be good for her&me too, She will have fun, My self & Her will miss each other more also it very healthy in the relationship for both of us,But i will miss her so much....:):):):):)

Answer 4

Welcome back JWL,

Well i would have been dead jealous at the beginning of our marriage and he would never have let me go either..... and still till today, but to a degree.... you see after 13 years of marriage (Masha Allah)... a couple need some time away from each other.... Lol.... sa7?

Answer 5

Yes,Its the best place man can have real fun.To top it if its Asia they have more fun,girls are very cheap there.

Answer 6

My wife go with her best friends and have fun? without me? NO WAY!

Answer 7

Absolutely!

I would never limit his freedom in any way.

There are many reasons for this, I will mention just a few, those that would answer the most common "objections"...

I don't think you can achieve anything by limiting one's freedom; they will find a way to do what they want to do if they want to do... And even if you could make them act the way you want them to act, it doesn't mean anything if it's achieved by force or pressure or limiting their freedom. The real things are coming from one's heart, that is, from someone's free will. Therefore, limiting one's freedom in any way is a total nonsense to me.

Another thing, I'm not a jealous person. I simply believe I'm attractive enough not only to "take" him, but to keep him interested as well, and smart enough to choose the right partner.

These are only some of the reasons...

At the same time, I would never ever date - let alone marry - someone who would have any idea that he could "not let me" do anything. Also, I would never ever be with a man who would have any problem with me traveling with my friends or alone (as I love to travel alone as well) for any reason. I would only be with a man who would trust me totally and completely and a man with self confidence.

Answer 8

Since we aren't independently wealthy, and we both have places in Europe we'd love to visit, I'd be a bit pissed and so would she.  Besides, I wouldn't go if I couldn't take my Wife.  Now if she and the Girls wanted to go to a Scrapbooking convention in another State...I wouldn't care in the slightest.  She's let me go on a 3-day Airsoft event in another State before and not had an issue.

Answer 9

I'd let him go, men need space as much as women do. And if he wants to go with his best friend without me that means that he probably wants to reconnect and relive the older days before marriage when he used to just hang out with his friends. Besides, what's a relationship without trust? Plus I would get time to reunite with my friends hehe, have a slumber party or even go on a trip of our own.

Answer 10

nope. he tried to, but I totally refused to let him go alone with his friends and without me ;)