Would you marrry this guy if you were in my situation?

Question

me and my boyfriend were together for 6 years im 16 years old. & he wants to marry me today!! can you believe that! he texted me. this is what it had said :

me:hey

him:hey, will you marry me! <3

see. i dont know what to do! ):

Answer 1

Yes

Answer 2

wow...wow...wow there is so much wrong with that

you are 16!!

and he asked you over a text message?

make sure hes not drunk or high lol

Answer 3

It sounds very nice but you are still very young and should probably wait until you are at least out of high school and have chosen a direction to go with your life.

Answer 4

Reply with &quot;someday&quot;.   When I was 16 my boyfriend TOLD me we were getting married as soon as I turned 18.  I just smiled as I thought, &quot;No way am I getting married after my high school graduation!&quot;  I was planning on going to college, etc....  Well, we did break up and I went to college; he didn&#039;t.  To date, I am married with 4 children, working, etc...He is a janitor with 6 or 7 kids - maybe more and almost as many ex wives.....................

Answer 5

Nope

Answer 6

No. You are 16 so that is No #1. He texted you that is No #2. He is probably not serious about getting married, since he texted it. If he was serious, he would have proposed in person.  

Answer 7

16?  You are way too young to even think marriage.  He might have been kidding.  But if he was serious.... on a text message...  honey, you don&#039;t want to marry anyone like that.  You have plenty of time, enjoy your youth, finish school, and then maybe think about marriage.  You&#039;re only young once in your life.  

Answer 8

You don&#039;t know what to do? Are you kidding me? Oh and you&#039;ve been together since your 10? You can&#039;t be serious.  Just tell him no.  You are too young to get married.  You aren&#039;t even of legal age and you are still in high school.  

Answer 9

he&#039;s only joking dont take it seriously

Answer 10

I hope he&#039;s kidding, but go ahead if your parents allow it.

Answer 11

First of all, you are 16 years old and you have no reason to be getting married. You are a child. Besides, it&#039;s illegal.

Secondly, what kind of guy proposes to his girlfriend in a text message? That&#039;s lame. There is nothing even remotely romantic about that. I&#039;m sorry to be rude but I&#039;m being realistic.

Answer 12

uhm...yeah....odds are he could just be kidding....he&#039;s probably not serious about it, especially if he asked u over a text. you should definitely ask him about it. Maybe ask him what he meant by it, if he was serious or if he was just playing around.

good luck!

Answer 13

I know it is exciting to hear that question, but please, do yourself a huge favor and don&#039;t get married until you&#039;re older.  You have your entire youth ahead of you.  ENJOY IT.  Go to college, work, party, date other guys, have a good time while you still can.  You&#039;ll be glad you did in the end.  You will have lots of of cool memories to look back on when you&#039;re older, instead of getting married at 16, resenting it later, and having to look back on a bitter divorce.  Trust me!

Answer 14

well, i could see him kind of saying that jokingly.. make sure he was dead serious bout it... what did he say after that?..

Answer 15

You are so young, get engaged or promised now if you want, but wait until you are at least out of highschool to have the wedding, people change so much and you are not even adults yet, you wont be able to have champaigne at your wedding, or drive along the beach on your honeymoon. And he asked you via text message - that isn&#039;t doing many favours in showing how much you guys are &quot;grown ups&quot;.

Take the time, don&#039;t get married now, IF anything get a promise ring together and promise to get married after highschool and any further education.

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Then again - you are asking us what we would say, but what do YOU want to say? Do you want to say yes? You didnt say anything about how you feel?? You should only say what you feel, don&#039;t lead him on.

If you want to say no, tell him (to his face NOT via text message) that although you see marrraige in your future with him, you don&#039;t feel mature enough yet and to ask you again in 5 years time.

If you want to say yes, let him know that you are very excited about your future together, and that you would be willing to get a promise ring in the meantime until you have both finished highschool

Dont text him back though. Number 1, it is a very big comittment to be made lightly over a text message. Number 2: one of his friends may have gotten his phone and texted you on it as a joke. I am speaking from experience - as a very immature kid once, I got hold of my friends phone and texted the same thing you just received. Thankfully, this friend kinda guessed it wasnt her boyfriend asking and so a big joke was made of it! I still regret it though!

Answer 16

he cant even ask in person? umm no.

Answer 17

Are you joking?You may laugh of your silly doubts when you grow old(If you are trying a joke really,hmmm.not bad)