Would you marry a stripper?

Question

Well I did. and it was the dumbest mistake of my life. But when I met her first of all I didnt kniw she was a stripper until about 2weeks after I met her. I never seen her strip. Anyways I was in Iraq for a year prior to meeting her so when I came home I went after then first woman that showed me any attention, Well she had a little girl. She was white and I am black(just to paint a better pic). Well she was 6 weeks old at the time and I fell in love withher right away. She was my daughter, and no one could tell me different. Well then my ex got pregnant so I married her. Thought I was doing the right thing. But even after we got married she did quit stripping but then she went to working at jack shacks and then escorting! It made me feel like **** but I stayed around supporting her. We are now divorced and she blames it on the simple fact that I watched p**n every now and then. But thats the only thing she has on me. It got so bad that she wouldnt even want me watching a movie with a girl in a bikini! She was controlling in all ways. Now ladies if you were in her shoes would you even she it a problem that your man watch p**n while you were out giving hand jobs and who knows what else? And guys would you have even stuck around for the bs. Even for the kids? let me know

Answer 1

Oops.  Shouldn't have married a stripper--or even slept with one for that matter.  I know hindsight is 20/20 but you don't need 20/20 for that one.

And let me make sure I've got this straight.  She's a stripper and an escort and she has a problem with p**n?  Ridiculous.  Sounds like she was looking for an excuse to get out of the relationship.  Probably found some old, rich guy that talks to her nice and tips big for a hand job.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

I'm sorry you'll be connected forever as she's your baby's mama.

Answer 2

Hey there!  I'm an engaged woman.  I wouldn't think it was a problem if my fiance watched p**n(which he does) whether I was giving hand jobs or not lol.  The only way I see p**n as a problem is when it's used to replace your significant  other and you'd rather watch p**n than be with them, so basically an addiction.  Even though I'm not a guy I'm going to answer the guys question lol.  I would not have stuck around for that, I know you were doing it for the right reasons, for the children, but I think it's much healthier for the kids to have their parents divorced or separated than to live in an environment with a bad relationship for their model.  I mean when you think about it that's the first relationship they will see and people tend to emulate the relationship examples of their parents.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

i cant say i wouldn;t marry a stripper but i wouldn't have stayed around for as long as you did in your case i guess its ok to strip but anything beyond that would be a problem for me even if there were kids involved i wont take that kind of control and especially wont accept her sleeping around.

Answer 5

Why would anyone wanna be with a lowlife like that.Okay,and than she would get jealous when she was doing worse than you watching p**n every now and than.That doesnt make any sense.A stripper shows that she doesnt respect herself,so what makes you think you could even trust her.

Answer 6

People are so gross.  I had her personality before I really "changed" for good.  I had Intervention.  I admit to a tramps heart as well, though I also say my mind is too educated & proud of to be happy about adultery.  I had been raped of dignity, my body, & my possessions way before I violated anyone else or myself.  There are a lot that way, so you can trust no one.   I am glad I am different, & have faith in life again.  

Answer 7

I wouldn't marry a stripper