Would you marry a woman with one child whos been married twice before?

Question

the child is under 2years old. what does it say about a woman thats been divorced twice

Answer 1

I am now married for the 3rd time. I picked cheaters before.  Having a child that young is good because their bad habits aren't already ingrained.  

Answer 2

It depends on the person. Is she divorced, b/c of something she did? Or not? How strong is yourrelationship? You have to decide if you love her and her kids and can deal with the outside father of the kids. Only you know what  you can handle. It she's a good person, why not marry her.

Answer 3

It says she keeps picking losers for husbands. But the old saying is that the 3rd time is a charm.

Answer 4

I wouldn't marry or date anyone with children because I wouldn't want to deal with other people's kids or the other woman for that matter.

Answer 5

Wouldn't bother with her, sorry too much baggage, im not looking to be a daddy to any kid but my own.  And surely not willing to support another mans child.  That and with two divorces, i'm going to guess that there is a reason these guys divorced her, and walk far far away.  

Answer 6

It says that she has bad taste in choosing men and good common sense to get away from them. Being divorced is not a stigma....unless you are prejudice and bias about singles marrying singles only. I would marry whomever I loved above all else. Regardless of the child situation. I, never having wanted kids, would probably not be attracted to a man with kids. If I did, I would marry him, with full acceptance of his children. That is what love is all about, ya know.

Answer 7

No, I wouldn't.

Answer 8

You don't know if the marriages broke up because of her or her partners.  You should never hold another's misfortune against them.  Her partners may have been unfaithful or just decided she wasn't what they wanted.  You need to talk with her as to why she is single yet again and you need to rethink if you really love her enough to take the plunge with her.  Some men aren't abusive right away and they wait until after the vows to start.  My ex didn't want me talking to anyone about what happened at home.  I wasn't allowed to open the curtains or talk to anyone or he would get pissed.  You need to rethink your approach to this subject.

Answer 9

It says she has no sense of commitment, like most people in our society. It's all about her, her, her, her needs, her wants, her desires, whatever, or she is seriously mentally messed up in some way from past abuse or something and she can't handle intimacy. Marriage takes work, and you better find out if she leaves when it gets tough and can't handle commitment or if there are some underlying problems with her or with the other men she was with. That is a big red flag to me, sounds like she's trying to follow liz taylor's footsteps...

Answer 10

If you have taken the time to count she probally isnt the love of your life. If you care more about her past then who she is now, then just save you and her the time and move on.  

Answer 11

Could mean just about anything . Bad choice in men , she.s a hoe , she dominating ,she hates men , and on and on . That one your going to have to figure out yourself being that we will never know her

Answer 12

it says that she is marriage material and wants real commitment, but that she picks loser husbands obviously.

Answer 13

I did. But that doesn't help you, just because it worked out fine. Maybe she's learned something. Maybe you've learned something. Talk a long time before leaping.  

Answer 14

every one has a past i believe a persons past helps make them the person they are today

Answer 15

if you have to ask yourself that question, the answer is no.

Answer 16

If you love her it doesn't matter. Maybe she was unfortunate enough to get two lemons. If the baby is under two then you can be the only dad he/she ever knows. What a great opportunity.

Answer 17

A woman already divorced and looking for a new husband when her child is only two cannot support herself and needs a man to keep her financially secure.

Hope you have money there buddy because YOU KNOW she will get knocked up again, she is probably putting holes in your condoms already to secure you will marry her.

Answer 18

Yes I would (if I was a man).  If I loved her I would know why she was married twice and it is likely because she made the wrong choices and the men she married were losers and she was smart enough not to stay with them.

Answer 19

She may have been unlucky with her previous choices of partners, has she told you why her 2 marriages failed? It would be good that she told you the reasons. If you really love her, and she you, then you should talk about these things and be open & honest, as it will affect the little child as well if things went wrong with you two; so make sure of each other before you tie the knot. Good luck.

Answer 20

My circumstances are the opposite..he's been divorced twice and has an 8 year old son...and full custody.  If he is the person I believe him to be (the relationship is very new), and the feelings keep going in the direction they seem to be headed in...I'd marry him in a heartbeat.

I'd worry less about what two divorces say about her, and more what this issue says about you.  People don't come fresh from the factory wrapped in shrink wrap.  Everyone comes with a history, and experiences.  Some of them are good and some of them aren't.  You either love her and are willing to accept her with the history and experiences, or you aren't.  

Heaven knows she's gonna have to cope with all your issues.

Answer 21

i met a young s**y women with a kid . we had 20 times s*x in 15 days she was desprate to kiss me now she says she is going to date some one and she want to get marrid she cant live like this and thr is no part of love in it ..

some womens jut want to get marrid cuz they feel alone and when they are with some one they feel more depress cuz they have much more expectations .. and when they dont fullfill brokeup hapens

try to find out the past issuses with thr x contact them and talk before u start relation ship its not bad if u talk with her x and ask them that i wana start life with her and i dont want breakup so what was the reason of ur breakup so i wont do that mistake

Answer 22

The only way I would do this is if she didn't have a disease.....like HPV or something?

Other than that, I absolutely would do it in a heart beat.