Would you prefer living seperate after marriage ? (indians only!!)?

Question

Please only for native-indian(hindu).

If the boy is having his parents dependent on him (mostly they are). where would you prefer to live seperate or with his parents?

If yes or no, what's the reason and your way of thinking ?

Thanks

Answer 1

See this choice will definitely vary from person to person. If you think from the ethical point of view or if ur parents are physically unwell, then u should never leave ur parents alone. Bt see if ur parents are physically very fit and if they have somewhat interfering kind of character & are of the very possessive kind of parents, i.e if u think they won't just allow u to spend any private moment with ur partner then living separately is fine. Otherwise u can definetely convince ur partner to live with them & understand them.

Answer 2

no whymeans our parents will suffer after marraiage we live outside.Because they had given birth to us and they gave the life to us and given a good growth to help our parents after marraiage.

Answer 3

well, i'm gal only my avatar is boy

in my views, u should see where ur husband feels happy

Answer 4

see mate..i can give u some choices....its ur decision wht u like..

the very first answer would be a big no..u should live with them,,as at this age they need u.....dun leave them for a girl...be mature

,,ok nw another view

..lets say if u got a job in another city and u have to leave them ..thts a different thing...but b sure u often visit them...help them financally..nd keep a trustable servant for them...

OR lets say  got married and you want a private life..or ur wife doesnt feel comfy or anything..

in that case get a house that has two floors..like joint family do..

and let them have one and u have the other..in this case u are living wid them as well as not...

so sorted...

but leave them......they should be like god to u..

but i do understand tht after marriage u do need a personal life with ur wife...so decision is all urs..

hope this will help u.....xx

Answer 5

i wud prefer to stay with the family, its much better to stay together...

m a girl nd i think many women don't like joint families in India coz they have to cook food for everyone....lol

Answer 6

If a girl living with her parents and have no brother then she should live with their parents after marriage, she should marry a boy who live with her at her home or some other solution in that she help her parents.

Answer 7

Joint Family is the best.... Am saying this not because its our culture but this make your family more strong and cherish your child to.... The sense of belongingness starts only from joint family only.  

Answer 8

obviously with them...they are totally dependent on u...y u even thinking of leaving them...when u were dependent on them...did they ever left u....come on dude...think that way...u will find the answer...

Answer 9

poor in this field because not married!!

Answer 10

Indians DON'T like independence, they only like dependancy. That is why when there is a crisis they simply don't know how to stand on their own two feet and to deal with it on their own. They simply don;t trust their instinct because they have never had to rely on themselves to come up with the solution to anything. They get everyone involved and in the end the problem never gets solved, it only gets diffused.

Answer 11

No way.....

Because I think it's the right time to forword our culture into a newly joined person of the family.

Answer 12

I would expect my parents to stay with me and my spouse.

Answer 13

I prefer to live saparate even if I like my parents in low. I think then I will have more freedom,I do not want his parents will interfere in my personal matters,what I am doing ,How long I sleep,how I care about husband and children.

If parents`s health is not well,I know he should care of them,but if they only depend financialy so I prefer just he gives money to them.

If I can live without my parents,I think husband can also.

Maybe i am selfish but it is my real feeling.

But I that is decision to my husband  - whether we will live with his parents or not. But he knows my opinion.

Answer 14

Hey ! yru asking this type of question.Obviously with his parents as they are dependent on him only .How can a guy leave his parents after marriage ?Is he not a son now? u can judge himself and u will find ur answer

Answer 15

living wid my parents is the bet, they are totally dependent on me. then hw cn i say no to dm. they spend money & time to grow up. now this the time to spend time wid dm. they need us & we need thm. they what the world is bole to duniya, and always teach us everytime.

Answer 16

I am a Male and will like to put you a question.

Do you want your brother to stay saperate from parents after his marriage ? If  no ...then why ?........your answer is hidden in my question !