Would you prefer your spouse be experienced or saved themselves for marriage?

Question

All things equal. Same person - just different situation.

Answer 1

Come on! He's gotta know how to work me. I'm very sexual. So he has to be a no bars freak. Just like me!

Answer 2

doesn't matter, its whats inside that matters, and as you get older , it becomes much harder to find a woman who hasn't been married or experienced before.

Answer 3

Anyone who "wants" a virgin is on an ego trip or is very in secure. Who in there right mind wants to marry someone who knows absolutely nothing about s*x, doesn't know what pleases them or knows how to please you?

I made the big mistake of marrying a virgin and it was horrible. Know woman wants to constantly have to teach her husband what she needs and he just doesn't get it.

Now I understand how my first husband felt when I was a virgin and he married me. I actually believed that it was important for my husband to be my first sexual experience. It sounded great, but it sure didn't turn out that way.

Knowing what I know today, if I had it to do all over again. I would not wait until I got married before having s*x, I would never marry a virgin, and I would clearly know ahead of time what I was getting before I married any man. s*x isn't everything, but it is a big part of a marriage. If the s*x is bad, it will seriously damage the marriage.