Would you rather be heartbroken or never love at all?

Question

And why?

Answer 1

heartbroken:

For awhile your your happy, then when it ends you are sad for awhile but then you really do heal over it and rember only the happy parts of love.

Answer 2

heartbroken because i know how it feels like.  

Answer 3

Heartbroken, b/c being in love was a great experience to begin with.  Hopefully, I won't be heartbroken again.

Answer 4

Heartbroken.  

Its really quite simple.  Why would you not want to experience love?  With love there are not 100% guarantees. There is a quote, not sure who said it, but none the less it reads:

"It is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all"

I think it speaks volumes.  I mean honestly... would your rather be heartbroken and sad? Yet still be able to look back at all the good times?  Or would your rather not have the good times at all?  Even with heartache, there is always positives to love.  And those positives far outweigh the heartache.  Even when heartache seems to take ages to get past.

Its like the question, if you could live to be 20, and never have a sad day in your life, but die on your 20th birthday.  Or live to be 100 and have all the experience life can give you.  The good, the bad, the decent, the horrid.  Which would you choose?

You can not live a REAL life without all the experience that come with it.  Just like you cant really know what love is, until you have experienced the loss that goes along with it.  Losing something, makes you that much more grateful the next time around

That's my (really long winded) two cents!

Answer 5

heart broken,

As painful as it is it another way we learn about ourselves and others and hopefully we make a better choice next time round.

We also grow from the experience.

Unfortunately some people don't learn the right lessons and become bitter and withdrawn.

Answer 6

i think you should never love at all because it is hard for a person to be hurt and go through what life has to go through being hurt its hard trying to forget and forgive

Answer 7

I'd rather to never have loved at all...that doesn't hurt.

To get heartbroken is a lifetime of hurt and pain.

Answer 8

I would rather never love at all than to be heartbroken because getting your   heartbroke hurts and if you never love someone you wont be able to get hurt by that.

Answer 9

Never love at all. Heartbreak, and love in general is way too painful.

Answer 10

                    Please read all my writing to you please!

  

I will say this to you. Your heart is yours and it belongs to your mother and father.

Love is so amazing.  Yes but wait till you are of good age to find a life partner.

You are not out to give yourself to any man unless he is 100% stabile in a job have a corrector of purity, honesty integrity and  have his s*x drive  in control.  

You don’t want aids from your husband as he sleeps around behind your back!!!

Keep this in mind you can’t make a donkey a raising hors.

Your mother and father deserve your heart first following there instruction.

Your mum dated man be for your dad till she married your dad and the same for your father.

You can save yourself heart brokenness ask your mum as she loves you and brought you in to this world. Please I ask you wait with dating and courtship after school wait till university and get a good man with a good an education what will love you not for the s*x he can get out of  you and leave you broken.  But with a man of Nobel character. If you are finished studding for your future.

Then yes date but I advise you do courtship instead.  Courtship is dating without romance and the fiscal side. If a man truly loves you he will say yes I will do this for you.

He will protect you from sexual sin.

Your sexuality is meant for a man what will walk a road with you staying away from s*x it brakes a relationship and it don’t make a relationship it only brakes you!!! And pleases a man what is not worthy of your love. If any man push you for s*x he is not worthy of your love. He is out  to love as a friend with no s*x that is the test to see if he is fit for you & listen to your mum and Dad they love one another and begotten you . Please feel free to mail me.   I don’t know your age. So I submit this to you with great care for your future. I can save someone a  lot of pain and misery See my heart in my righting please and the warmth of my words to you.

Jaco  k

Answer 11

def. heartbroken because i've already been there done tht. now i want to kno wat love feels like.  i'm sure its wonderful. sigh... o well so yea theres ur answer.

so wat about u?!?

Answer 12

i would rather be heartbroken because then i'd still hav a chance of falling in love again

Answer 13

never love at all