Would you rather have someone tag you on the nose and be done with it than hold hard feelings for you forever?

Question

Would you rather have someone tag you on the nose and be done with it than hold hard feelings for you forever?

Answer 1

among younger boys sometimes it's better to slug it out openly once and for all instead of keeping the hard feelings inside but for adults, talking it out in calm manner is the only solution.

Answer 2

It really depends if it was really my mistake.. I would say yes if I truly did an offensive act that I am aware of.. If it was just their reaction to what I did because of how they wrongfully perceived it or if they were misinformed or are just sensitive and there's really nothing wrong that I see on it then I would rather have them deal with their own problem.. Their keeping a grudge for things that are of their own fault because of their sensitivity and misunderstanding should not be placed on my shoulders..

Answer 3

sometimes yes,it is better than being tortured by the emotions.

but if i have a choice, still i prefer not to be hurt physically. if we could talk things out then better.

Answer 4

No, Violence doesn't solve things.

Dialogue will helps.

Will someone tag you on the nose yet will be done with it? Can this resolve conflicts between people?

Won't you hold hard feelings for someone who had tag you?

Answer 5

Yes. The sooner we all get over it, the better. I would not want to be on my toes all the time.