Would you rather want your child to be g*y or get pregnant at a young age?

Question

I rather have my child get pregnant at a young age than wanting him or her to be g*y, because being a teen parent is easier for them socially, emotionally, and mentally. It has nothing to do with right or wrong, but i rather have my child take the easy way out. Think about it! the social pressure, the emotional struggle, the confusion, the family pressure, etc, those are the stuff that homosexual has to face and overcome to feel comfortable with his or her own skin.

Answer 1

I would be supportive in either case.  

"the social pressure, the emotional struggle, the confusion, the family pressure, etc,"

These are things you face as a homosexual, teenage parent, or just a regular teenager too there is no getting away from it.  It is how you handle it that matters.

I hope I will give my children the courage to face any situation.

Answer 2

Get pregnant at a young age but there's nothing wrong with being g*y.

Answer 3

Pregnant young.

Everyone is given difficult things to deal with the righteous way.  g**s are called to chastity, and I think beign a teen parent is easier than chastity.

Answer 4

I would much rather my child have a baby at a young age than to be g*y

Answer 5

g*y. I don't have a problem with it.

Answer 6

I totaly agree with you.

Answer 7

I would rather g*y there is nothing wrong with been g*y at all  

Answer 8

I'd rather have them be g*y.. there's nothing wrong with it.. and as for how you feel about growing up homosexual, I believe the people at home change these feelings.. if you've got a tolerant and supportive family behind you, you won't have to feel uncomfortable and afraid to show who you really are.

Answer 9

You'd rather have your child's body damaged by carrying a child before adulthood?  A g*y child is not a failure in parenting, a pregnant 14-year old is a MAJOR failure in parenting.  

How are you going to answer these question from your friends:  "Why didn't you tell them what causes babies?  What else did you forget to tell them?  Not to steal?  To work for a living?"

I'll take a g*y daughter before a pregnant 14-year old daughter.  I can always answer, "I don't know why she's g*y, maybe she was born that way."  Besides, it's a lot easier to hide a sexual preference than an obnoxious 2-year old.

Answer 10

You are seriously sheltered if you think getting pregnant young would be some sort of "easy way out".

Answer 11

g*y for sure.    

Answer 12

g*y, definitely.

Being g*y doesn't rob a person of their childhood, and it's much more accepted socially than it used to be.

Getting pregnant at a young age ruins people's lives.  Who cares what society thinks about it, it forces someone to grow up much sooner than they should.  Having my child get pregnant too young would also harm my grandchild because their parent wouldn't be in a good position to be a parent.

I think every human being has to deal with social pressure, emotional struggle, confusion, family pressure, etc. irregardless of their sexual orientation.

Answer 13

g*y for sure.  That's no comparison.  I think it's interesting that you have the idea that having a baby at a young age is easier.  Obviously you have never known anyone personally with either one of these situations.  I have known two particular people in both of these situations.  My best friend growing up realized that she was g*y while she was in high school.  She told everyone and while it was kind of a shock at first, all of our friends just carried on like nothing, because it is nothing, really.  Now she is successful and happy in a long term relationship.  My friend that had a baby at 16 is a different story.  She agonized over the decision to keep the baby or not for months before finally deciding to keep him.  Her family refused to help her with the baby at all.  She lost alot of friends because everyone called her a "s**t" and people were embarrassed to hang out with her.  She was forced to drop out of high school and get a job at a fast food restaurant because that's the only place that would hire her with no diploma.  Before she dropped out of school, she made straight A's and was involved in alot of extracurricular activities that would have earned her a full scholarship for sure.  But now, 6 years later she finally earned her GED and now she works as a shift supervisor at that same fast food place making like $7.00 an hour.  So I think you are very misinformed about these situations.

Answer 14

I'd have to say pregnant since that is at least a natural state.  In the short term, a youngster giving birth has a higher risk then a mature woman but in the long run, the homosexual lifestyle is more dangerous.  Also, the baby can always be adopted out to someone who is emotionally and economically able to raise it.  Being a homosexual at a young age would surely lead to drug use, ostricication, and a miserable life.  Plus, one can be unhappy about the pregnancy but then work to correct the thinking of the youngster but what can one do about mutated genes?  Family members are always more understanding of getting pregnant then being homosexual and will not likely exert negative pressures for long.  I think you have thought this through quite well.  Hopefully neither of us will have to deal with either situation.

Answer 15

What? Of course a g*y kid... who cares about its sexual preference!

You would rather see your child have a child!? That kid would have to drop out of school, or you would probably have to take care of it, live with the burden of being a failure, and people calling her a w***e, she won't be financially stable, and the father might want nothing to do with the kid.

And you wouldn't want the kid to be g*y?

What if your pregnant child had a g*y child?

Answer 16

if i had children, i would rather them be g*y. not that big a deal

Answer 17

There is nothing wrong with being g*y. I think people stare at pregnant teens more than any other group of people.

If any of my kids want to be g*y, cool. :) I really don't care as long as they are happy.

Answer 18

g*y

Answer 19

id rather have him to be g*y or her to be L*****n

thnk about beeing a teen mom

you have no life

everyone still pick on you

you have responsibilty that you are way too immature to have still

and statistics show that they drop out of higschool and then they are on welfare and then the kid suffers more often then not

Answer 20

g*y i guess. Thats kind of like asking  "would you rather your child be an artist or have blonde hair" it realy has nothing to do with eachother at all and are 2 seperate things. being g*y isnt controllable, getting pregnant young IS.

Answer 21

well, if they were g*y i would except them as they are, and about you're question, I'd rather have my child not pregnant, so g*y. g*y children don't have a harder time these days. I think you're stuck in the past hun.

Answer 22

I want the best for my kids, so this question in general is dumb.