Would you rather your 23 daughter was still a virgin or appeared in an amateur p**n video?

Question

In this day and age, who knows what parents will say.

Answer 1

ummmmm duh a virgin

Answer 2

as any parent, you always want to see your child pure. most pure people that are content with their choices tend to have a glow about them. as far as i know, it would probably kill a part of my parents to know that i wasn't a virgin (i'm 19) but at the same time he would know that i gave it to someone i was going to spend the rest of my life with. we arent married but as far as i am concerned he is the first and only person i ever made love with and i think i am the same for him. hes the love of my life and i know my parents although would be suprised, would still be happy for us. i know i'm still young but we both have high hopes we will be together forever. maybe instead of thinking that losing your virginity is a bad thing, you can think about the overall situation and then say whether its a good or bad thing. if the connection is there with a person eternally then its a pure love and is only positive. hope you can understand this :)

Answer 3

I would say a virgin is way better than be in a p**n video.

Answer 4

Virgin lol

Answer 5

A good parent would want their child to make good choices for themselves (most good choices don't involve p**n but hey.....) If a teenager or young adult has premarital s*x so be it (but keep it safe and off video)

Answer 6

What kind of question is that?!  Of course I'd want her to be a virgin over a p**n star!  Pornography destroys marriages and families.

Answer 7

virgin

Answer 8

virgin!!!

Answer 9

virgin but only for the reasons that she holding out for marriage

Answer 10

i would say a virgin. or married.

But when you turn 18 you can do what you want.

So at 23 if they wanna be in a p**n they can.

Answer 11

Wow what a question! I teach my children why it is important to not have s*x before marriage so I'll say "23 and virgin".

Answer 12

Both situations are wrong. A 23 years old should not be virgin anymore but she shouldn't be a s**t or a p**n star either (wich I wouldn't want my future children to be at any age, not only at 23)

I'm 23 and a half and I am married

Later edit: maybe I over reacted, but between 22-25 years old, depending on how physically and mentally mature a woman is, she should start her s*x life. Most girls are mentally mature when they are 22, they would know how to avoid pregnancy and eventually deal with unwanted pregnancy (and I don't mean abortion, wich I am against), they would know how to avoid STD, their bodies are ready for s*x and in most of the cases they feel the need for it (even earlyer in fact) and they are also mentally mature enough for commitment. I don't necesarely mean marriage but at least serious relationship.

I have met girls who developed hormonal issues and the doctors recomended that they should start their s*x life. It is absolutely normal for a 23 years old to have an active s*x life

I asked a question to parents, what age would be proper for their daughters to start their s*x lifes. Most answers were: 18, 20, or on the wedding night. Personally I think the proper age is when the girl is responsable enough to asume unwanted pregnancy, knows how to protect herself from STD and of course when she feels it is right. Most girls I know fulfilled those requirements around 20.